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| Fri, 06-16-2006 - 7:26pm |
Not sure what emotion to use..
Men when you want to start or engage in intercourse -what does it mean to you to touch, suck etc her breast and or nipple and and why do you feel drawn to it? also what are you feeling inside when you are touching it with your mouth and or with your hand etc. ? and which do you prefer to do the sucking of the breast as a whole or the nipple and or both? and do you continuually touch the nipple and or breast throughout foreplay and intercourse? Do you feel something is lacking if you haven't sucked her breasts etc.? mainly the sucking of her breasts...
Judith
And Women: for those of you who have had kids what meaning does it have for you when he is sucking on your breast vs the child and so on and why do you like it when he does it and so on -not sure how to say this- other than the obvious -how is that sexual and different for you when a child does it for nourishment. for you when if you have breastfed your kids other than the obvious -which would you prefer him sucking and and whatever it is that comes from that... how do you feel when he is doing it etc?
Judith

There is no comparison (for me anyway) with nursing a child and having my husband suck my breasts.
Toots:)
You don't need emoticons to ask a question. What you need to ask a question is to ASK a question, a sensible one, that can be answered sensibly.
Nursing a baby has NOTHING to do with sex! Anyone who would compare it to sex, or even think of it in a sexual context has a very strange mind.
A man may or may not be interested in women's breasts. Some men aren't. Some women enjoy touching, fondling or other kinds of breast play, other women don't particularly enjoy it, and some women dislike it intensely.
Tell us how YOU feel about it.
I think Tish pretty much summed up my feelings on this subject.
As far as which I prefer, that's like comparing apples and oranges. My husband sucking on my breasts is a completely different experience than nursing my children.
Thank you -not sure what emotion to use-"help"working through something.
But what do you experience what is the feeling that you expeirence when he sucks and -I agree that it is different than nursing children-and do you feel it inside and what is the difference when it comes to the feeling vs the children feeding? do you like his sucking and how do you see his sucking (I agree with you that it is different) but how is it differnt in what you experience and so on what is it that you experience/feel etc? How do you see him when he is doing so?
Judith
I agree that it is different but I am working through stuff lets just suffice it to say. I realize that is common sense but I need a response from a woman. just the same.
Judith
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I am not exactly sure what you are asking here. You should try making each question separate, not running them all together.
The reason my husband sucking on my breasts is different than nursing my children is that I don't have sexual feelings for my children. Sex is mostly in your head. If I am not feeling sexual, I won't be aroused, no matter who is doing the sucking.
Look at it this way - if my husband came up to me and fondled my breast, I would likely find that arousing, because he is my husband and I love him and I have those feelings for him. However, if a strange man came up and fondled my breasts, I would likely feel offended and violated. It's the same action, but different feelings because of where I am in my head at that time.