Ok...Well..I am in a simular situation. For three years I had a sexual relationship with a very hot guy...who happened to be married. Since I didnt want anything from him other than the mind blowing sex we were having, it worked for us. We stopped about six months and I just chalked it up as OVER. Now...enter his younger brother..also hot ...but not married, we started dating and, of course, having sex, although it is nowhere near the quality of sex with bro number 1. In the four months now passed , I have slept with bro # 1 again, and it is still sooo good!!! I am continuing to develope an actual relationship with bro #2, all while becoming entiwined in the whole family dynamic, including with the wife of bro # 1, whom, inspite of the entire families dislike of her, I happen to like her very much. So...what will become of my deviant behavior. Im not sure, but I know it is a powder keg set to blow up in the faces of ...well ...all of us. But to be honest, I'm not sure I want to stop. It isnt a situation to envy for sure, but I am hoping I can work it so no one gets hurt and everyone gets what they want. Im pretty certain that is unlikely though and that I will probably end up without either of them. Weigh the risk...is it worth risking your relationship for?
No. Double-yuck.
And not because they're not attractive, successful men, because they all are. But have sex with them?
Edited 4/18/2005 10:57 pm ET ET by tally33