Busty cleavage, whats your thought?
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Busty cleavage, whats your thought?
| Thu, 10-14-2004 - 11:09am |
Busty cleavage, whats your thought?
- Too flirtatious, no sense of self respect.
- Sometimes just innocently trying to be a tiny bit more attractive.
- With professional attire, very self-confident.
- Inappropriate; kids and churchgoers shouldn't be exposed to that.
- Who cares, enjoy it or ignore it.
- Other.
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I personally don't think this type of display is ever appropriate for daily wear, though, much less in an office setting....IF you want to be taken seriously, that is. And besides, many an employer would send you home for wearing distractive and provocative dress anyway.
With my DH in an evening setting, then it's more attune with the personal and intimate nature of the occasion.
Edited 10/14/2004 12:11 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
I suppose that I don't want to see women feeling that they have to avoid fashions simply because they have big boobs. How dreary it would be having to shop and avoid anything that's low cut just because their cleavage may show.
You see, I'm wearing a low cut top today. Not sexy, just a pretty, summery top. Thanks to my lack of size and no bra, cleavage is not an issue - but I'd hate to think that I could not choose the same clothes if I had big boobs.
If women aren't comfortable showing their cleavage, that's their choice. However, I don't feel that we as a society should penalise those who are blessed with cleavage by expecting them to cover up.
I've worked in many corporations and no-one that has a position with much responsibility shows cleavage at work because that's not what they want people to see first and since breasts are a sexualized body feature that is what people will think of first when they see it.
>>short shorts with but cheeks hanging out, super low cut jeans so you have to shave your pubes to wear them or your butt crack is hanging out<<
I suppose that when I speak of fashion, I'm referring to normal clothes...the type of thing you find at Target or fashion chains. Something that wouldn't generally be considered provocative.
And you know what? I don't care. Legs can be pretty sexy too, but no one suggests we not wear skirts or hose or high heels to show them off. Hips and rears are sexy, but no one thinks twice about wearing fitted pants that accentuate them, even at work (I'm not talking butt cleavage or tight, TIGHT pants). Long hair can be sexy but I'm not going to wear it up in a librarian's bun every day to minimize it. So if you can see a hint of cleavage, if you notice that gee, I've got breasts! it's not a concern to me. I refuse to be all buttoned up and prim just because I've got curves.
There's appropriate and innappropriate and I think we all know the difference. I have a favorite black velvet v-neck top I wear in the winter (with black jeans and boots) when DH and I go out. It has a deep v and of course, I wear the red VS push up bra underneath! This is still *not* a Pamela Anderson display, believe you me. It's pretty mild by most standards. But I would never wear it to work. Even in a regular work top though, it's pretty hard to miss the fact that I have breasts. I would hate to wear an Oxford-type shirt buttoned up to the top button because if I leave one unbuttoned, you can see cleavage. But I don't think that leaving that top button or two undone is asking for attention either.
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