Bye ---Bye Open Marriage

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Registered: 09-28-2004
Bye ---Bye Open Marriage
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Sun, 10-10-2004 - 11:06am
Had a long talk with d/h last night. He has called it off, he feels uncomfortable with it so it is done... He acted like he kinda got mad because I said I was ok either way. He told me he felt like it was causing trust issues, funny I had thought he no longer trusted me anyway. The lack of trust is why he agreed to the open marriage to begin with. Who knows? I guess not me...lol. But if this is what he wants this week, what the hell I'll amuse him.

Stuck on earth

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sun, 10-10-2004 - 12:34pm
I can understand it causing trust issues, there is no way I could have an open marraige.

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Registered: 09-28-2004
Sun, 10-10-2004 - 12:39pm
I am ready to try...I was having odd thoughts too I guess.

Stuck on earth

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Registered: 09-28-2004
Sun, 10-10-2004 - 3:28pm

You know I have learned a lot about myself with this experiment. Also the "the grass may be greener, but you still have to maintain it" saying is true...lol.


I see now that I need to work out a few of my own issues, like my need for sex, and what I'm trying to get from it,Also my self image and learning that sex isn't helping to improve how I feel about by self(it shouldn't have anything to do with it) but it does for me I think. I am going to look into a counselor now just for me...

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