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| Sat, 11-17-2007 - 10:34pm |
Hi all - my first post here. I usually spend my time on the UK boards but thought I'd take refuge in a slightly more anonymous forum for this question! I just had one question to ask all the female members and would be very grateful for your comments.
My wife has started demonstrating some slightly bossy tendencies in the bedroom. It all started when I bought her a gorgeous black satin corset which made her look truly

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Welcome to the board, Romeo.
I'm not really into D/s, but I am into good communication. As Steve, said, approaching the topic when sex isn't on the table is a good idea. Perhaps if you say something like, "I sense you might like experimenting with D/s" or "I sense you might want to take charge in the bedroom from time to time", will give her the opportunity to answer based on how she truly feels. The short answer to your question is "yes" -- there are women in the D/s community who truly love being in charge.
Another thing you could try is discussing fantasies with her. Often, if you open up about something you would like to try, it opens a door for your partner to open up as well. It may take some time, but usually, once those doors of communication are open, they stay open. Some people even use a fantasy or activity jar. Each of you would write down things you would like to try (or just different things you've heard of) and put them into the jar. Then from time to time, you pull an idea or two from the jar and give them a try.
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