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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 5:19pm
Ladies what matters more when it comes to penis size lenght or grith? Im both very long and thick. My SO says she wouldnt care if I was shorter but she could not get pleasure if it were skinny. Ladies whats your opinion on the subject?


Edited 6/5/2007 5:20 pm ET by mr.niceguy2007

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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 6:08pm

I can tell you as a woman, and a Lady, that contrary to what Dr Freud may have suggested...size does not matter.


A lover, an experienced lover, brings far more than a well endowed appendage to a woman in their sexual relationship. An exceptional lover brings a certain amount of skill, a desire to give

Mrs P

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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 6:43pm
And again well said mrspe!
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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 8:09pm
Right on, mrspe! Wonderfully phrased...



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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 8:10pm

Hello there!


What are your thoughts on the matter? My answer was from a woman's POV...and my own perspective.


Mrs P

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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 8:11pm
Very well put, Mrs. P.

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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 8:16pm
*Does size give a sort of confidence, a swagger?*

This is going to be a tough question for most men to answer, as we've all been whatever size we are since puberty. From my perspective, as a man of slightly larger than average endowment, I've always felt that it's what I'm capable of doing with my penis, rather than its dimensions, that speak the most to my qualities as a lover.

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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 8:18pm

Thank you NH!


You know this is a discussion that always makes me shake my head. Maybe a younger woman, an inexperienced one might be impressed with size.


I am married to a very athletic and physically well built man. While I won't be crass and discuss his more personal measurements...after a few years I'd say it's far more important to me that he had the skills I mention and not so much the equipment God gave him.


You know it's entirely genetic and not a feature that has been "developed".

Mrs P

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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 8:19pm
Well lets put it this way......it seems to some on these boards that it does give a swagger or confidence, enough so that the art of lovemaking seems belittled(lol yes intended). I'm no way somebody that likes to brag on the size, I have never had one complaint, however I'm not some overhung porn star, but I do know how to love a lady, to make her feel fullfilled in so many more ways then just some thang stuffed in her. The mind first, the lovely and soft femine body from head to toe, there is so much to lovemking than "Hey look what I got"
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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 8:24pm

That is precisely what I was after in posting my question.


I can only speak for myself...but I do believe that a person's physical appearance...in this case endowment...might offer an individual an initial feeling of confidence.


However, once disclosed and exposed, the gentleman had better understand a woman enough to know that there needs to be a level of skill involved...an amount of expertise if you will...that would ensure he enjoys a satisfying relationship with her.

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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 8:28pm

Are we all speaking from the perspective that experience and age brings?


Lovemaking is an art ... a finely crafted and exquisitely skilled art form.


I've never in my life heard a woman say. "Oh but he was so small".


Not if he was any good...

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