Calling all Ladies!!

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Calling all Ladies!!
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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 5:19pm
Ladies what matters more when it comes to penis size lenght or grith? Im both very long and thick. My SO says she wouldnt care if I was shorter but she could not get pleasure if it were skinny. Ladies whats your opinion on the subject?


Edited 6/5/2007 5:20 pm ET by mr.niceguy2007
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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 9:39pm
Thanks. It took me a while to come up with a nice way to express my thoughts. I hope I wasn't too offensive, but someone had to say it. At least this will let men know what women are thinking when they're boasting about their size.
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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 9:49pm

I thought he already more than covered that topic with the "visual" that popped up recently.


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Mrs P

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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 9:56pm
What does Freud say? I have a feeling I know the answer, but I'd like to hear it in your words.
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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 10:00pm
I think a broad mind and a long session of lovemaking say more than any penis size could convey. Relying solely on a tool to do the work of a man is the mistake a boy might make. A young woman might be too naive to have learned this lesson, but a seasoned lover surely knows the difference.


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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 10:25pm

I am certainly nothing near well versed on Freud's theories.... but I seem to remember something about phallocentrism.


I think Freud was a chauvinist. His theory of a girls Penis Envy suggests we are attracted to a more sizable offering...in the most simplest of terms. Mostly because we don't have one. He suggests women have a desire for a penis...so naturally we want the biggest and the best. Following along that thought we want the man with the biggest and the best.


I don't think Freud knew very much about women.


I would love if someone knowledgeable on the subject would chime in. I will do a bit of research when I finish posting...and report my findings. LOL.


Mrs P

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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 10:32pm
Interesting. I look forward to reading your research findings. I didn't mean to put you to work... but thanks!
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Thu, 06-07-2007 - 3:34am

I'm not sure what that says,,,,lol,

I couldn't get back here until now, however I did see another post that was added earlier about women and breast size,hmmmmm, how fitting,lol. Why is it that people make everything to do with a good partner size oriented? What happened to chemistry,passion and desire,

I also have heard the looks thing about women and they don't have to perform, however have also heard the same about men and their looks or size. I agree I have very lovely ladies who performed quite well in the bedroom.

Sadly it is true it is all work, and what is that old saying about all work and no play,,,,,,,,,well I'm getting pretty frustrated,lol.

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Thu, 06-07-2007 - 8:14am

I have to disagree with the 'size doesn't matter' issue at least for some women. After a lifetime that has included probably 15 long-term (more than a few months, 8 of them I lived with) lovers and probably double that short-term lovers (hey .. I grew up in the era of free love :) I definitely have a preference.

I prefer them thick and shorter. Only because of reasons I stated before that when a guy is 5-6" long the end of his penis tends to come into contact with my particular area known as the g-spot better (every woman is different about where this is remember). But when I say thicker I mean maybe 5-6" girth at the most. More than that and I begin to have a problem with it. My current lover is prefect for me! Maybe the best I have ever had. Now if the intellectual stimulation is as good as the sex I might be able to make a go at a relationship with him! So far, so good. A man that is wants to play chess with me has much more of a chance of turning me on than one that doesn't lol! And he does.

Edited 6/7/2007 8:18 am ET by tami-kins




Edited 6/7/2007 1:06 pm ET by tami-kins
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Thu, 06-07-2007 - 8:22am

"Oh but he was so small!"

I have had occasion to say that more than once but out of the many lovers I have had (sorry ... I got bored easily when I was younger lol) its only happened a couple or maybe 3 times. There have been men that HAVE been too small (in thickness) to satisfy me in bed and for a large portion of my life that was important to me. You are right in saying that if the man is an exception lover size may not matter as much, I have lived with some of them ... but there are the rare cases where it DOES matter.

Overall though, any man with close to average size who really knows how to treat a woman is more than adequate for our needs! So I do agree with that. A large portion of being a good lover depends on how you treat us outside the bedroom too.




Edited 6/7/2007 8:29 am ET by tami-kins
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Thu, 06-07-2007 - 11:21am
I'm not sure I understand. Four inches in girth is below average. On ther other hand, I can't believe you mean diameter.