Calling all Ladies!!

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Registered: 04-20-2007
Calling all Ladies!!
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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 5:19pm
Ladies what matters more when it comes to penis size lenght or grith? Im both very long and thick. My SO says she wouldnt care if I was shorter but she could not get pleasure if it were skinny. Ladies whats your opinion on the subject?


Edited 6/5/2007 5:20 pm ET by mr.niceguy2007
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Registered: 10-15-2006
Thu, 06-07-2007 - 11:51pm

I understand your curiosity and I understand why it is you ask.


I mean no disrespect to anyone who shares personal information but there are some things I believe are best kept private.


Having said that...my opinions are based on my own personal experiences, and yes I have had enough to form an opinion.


No two people are alike. No two people approach a sexual experience in the same way. That is why I enjoy these boards so much. I enjoy getting another perspective on things. I enjoy learning what other people have to say, what other people do.


I was interested in your input and opinion. Not all women think the same way. Thank God!


Mrs P

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Registered: 05-11-2007
Thu, 06-07-2007 - 11:53pm

thanks! me and my bike :) in the avatar

I certainly hope I can find someone that I love as much as you and mrspe seem to have one of these days. Its sounds like you are both very satisfied with your partners! I had a lot of issues to work through over the years and now I think I am ready plus I am being very picky about a new guy. But I still want the whole package! I actually think I found it.

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Thu, 06-07-2007 - 11:57pm
No problem and I respect your reticient .. I was simply curious. I know I have had a lot of different lovers over the years but I truly never felt I was promiscious after my 3rd marriage lol. But it isn't something I am ashamed of either. I had a lot of issues to work out in my own head and I know I have a hard time maintaining affection for the men in that have been in my life. This time I am being much more picky about who that is. I want to grow old with someone that I love!
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Registered: 08-16-2006
Fri, 06-08-2007 - 12:01am
First great legs, and I can't talk for her, but I can for me and NO, I'm no where near that with a partner, has been a great struggle for me lately too. I know what I want, and desire, and I don't have that.
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Fri, 06-08-2007 - 12:07am
lol ... yes I do have great legs and I am sorry you haven't found what you are looking for yet. Its taken me almost 50 years though but I think that now I have found someone that I can feel that way about! So its never too late. Actually in the last 20 years I have only had 6 partners and 3 of them I lived with (one was my 4th husband, we were married 12 years in a vitually sexless marriage). One of those partners is my newest boyfriend and I wish I had met him 20 years ago. But it really is never too late
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Fri, 06-08-2007 - 12:11am
I'm 48 and on my second marriage which is to my HS sweetheart, this may sound weird but I'm more romantic and passionate then she will ever be, and truthfully I miss and need that
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Fri, 06-08-2007 - 12:15am
I would suggest that you really try to communicate your needs to her. If I had tried harder with my 4th husband I might still be married to him. To this day I miss the man he was even though the sex didn't come near being satisfying. If I could have just convinced him that his tongue was a sexual organ! But I gave up and that I have regretted to this day. I feel lucky to have found someone else that I get along with as well as I did him ... and the sex is fabulous! Time will tell though. This relationship is still very new.
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Registered: 10-15-2006
Fri, 06-08-2007 - 12:19am

We all want to grow old with someone we love! I hope you find what you are looking for. You deserve it.


I think the word promiscuous is overrated...and it often is limited to describing women only.


I prefer the word experienced...don't you?

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Mrs P

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Registered: 08-16-2006
Fri, 06-08-2007 - 12:19am
Well I wish you well then! I have a great desire with my tongue see my Tahitian Method post on the Oral Sex board. I have expressed my needs in oh so many ways, and in oh so many tries, to include begging for marriage counseling, yes I have given it every shot I can think of
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Fri, 06-08-2007 - 12:22am
Experienced is exactly what I am :) Thank you mrspe!