Can he be TOO big?

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Registered: 08-08-2005
Can he be TOO big?
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Fri, 08-19-2005 - 10:07am


After many years of complaining about small penis' I think I've ran into a worse problem. I didn't think it was possible, but I think my new sex partner is "bottoming out." I always thought this was a joke! But it hurts kinda while we have sex each time his penis hits it, and then really hurts after sex. I don't know if there is any way to avoid this without letting go of my favorite positions!

He said he's never had this problem before, which I don't believe because he is very big! Could I have a small vagina? (I feel stupid asking that.)

Or are we just not compatible?

GRR! He's really good too!

Kayla

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 08-19-2005 - 10:30am

He is


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Registered: 08-18-2005
Fri, 08-19-2005 - 12:08pm
I agree exactly with cl-issytish. =)
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Registered: 11-15-2003
Fri, 08-19-2005 - 12:15pm

Yep...he's hitting your cervix, work around it if you want to keep the relationship.

This is all amazing to me. A sure fire method to ensure that you are unhappy is to focus on what you don't have....because it is an endless cycle. Reading the posts today about "penis" size or frequency of sex is just hilarious. It reminds me of an old t-shirt that I bought for my wife when she was in Law School. It was written in the short hand that court reporters use and was written at the end of one particular day during a session of the Minnesota Supreme COurt: "No one is Happy and Everyone Has Appealed".

Peace.
SCott.

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Fri, 08-19-2005 - 12:33pm

so it IS possible for a guy to be TOO big?

and how do you "work around it"? work around the cervix? because don't MOST guys like to be able to go in ALL THE WAY!?

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Registered: 05-22-2003
Fri, 08-19-2005 - 3:26pm

No.

You should be extremely proud to have landed a well endowed man.

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Registered: 11-15-2003
Fri, 08-19-2005 - 3:35pm

You try new postions, you mention to him that it hurts and you'd like him to only go in so deep. Sure guys like to go in all the way, but if it hurts you it hurts you. Since when does making love mean that the man or the woman gets to do things exactly the way that they want whether it is pleasureable for their partner or not?

Sure, this may be a different situation for you as this guy as extremely large, but EVERYONE deals with the fact that they need to tell their lovers what they like and don't like. Making love is always about communication and compromise so that everyone is happy. If you both are not happy, then it's not making love.

Peace,
Scott.

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Registered: 07-26-2005
Fri, 08-19-2005 - 3:36pm

Proud???? Of what? It's HIS penis, not hers! Even HE doesn't have anything to be "proud" of! He didn't "land" it, it's what genetics gave him! I feel sorry for a man who has nothing to be proud of but the size of his penis!

Most of us don't "land" men, either....we just happen to get lucky and find one that reciprocates our feelings. (And we don't care what size his penis is!)

Geez, you make it sound like a fishing contest! You CAN be proud if you land a big FISH.....

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 08-19-2005 - 3:37pm

What part of the original poster saying


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Registered: 03-09-2005
Fri, 08-19-2005 - 4:28pm
There's more to sex than being well endowed and going like a pile driving piston drilling for oil. How that tool is used is more important. Someone with a smaller penis and knows how to use it is able to satisfy a woman sexually better than someone with a huge penis who thinks all he has to do is ram it in and hit "rock bottom."
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Registered: 05-22-2003
Fri, 08-19-2005 - 5:10pm

Nobody is suggesting otherwise.

You obviously want to talk about something different from what this thread is about.

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