Can he be TOO big?
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Can he be TOO big?
| Fri, 08-19-2005 - 10:07am |
After many years of complaining about small penis' I think I've ran into a worse problem. I didn't think it was possible, but I think my new sex partner is "bottoming out." I always thought this was a joke! But it hurts kinda while we have sex each time his penis hits it, and then really hurts after sex. I don't know if there is any way to avoid this without letting go of my favorite positions!
He said he's never had this problem before, which I don't believe because he is very big! Could I have a small vagina? (I feel stupid asking that.)
Or are we just not compatible?
GRR! He's really good too!
Kayla

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Yes, people are trying to help her, just as I have by making suggestions to her.
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Bottom line, if a man is way below average or way above, it will take more adjustment, cooperation and patience to learn to have satisfying sex but it's doable. But personally, that's why I prefer average. I rarely have to worry about having my cervix hit or feeling uncomfortable. It's just pure pleasure from start to finish.
I don't want to have to deep breath my way through sex with a huge guy and I don't have to worry that what I may inadvertently say or do something that might hurt a smaller partner's sensitive feelings about his size. Thank God for the average guy.
Edited 8/19/2005 5:58 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
A man of size must be careful of the thrusting angle. The cervix normally lifts up when excited to avoid the 'traffic', but women vary. Even then a guy can angle and push against it. Most guys crave that sensation of being totally enveloped at some point and movement provides heavenly stimulation. Her guy must learn how to adjust his angle of insertion, then he can reach back behind her cervix without touching/banging it. A lady can also move her hips to adjust the angle.
> And since when did a big penis make a man the Alpha Male?
Penis size does indirectly "tend" to make a man more alpha male. Those things hanging and swinging around below it make most of a man's testosterone. That hormone directly affects a male's libido and much of growth of the penis. It stands to reason a male with larger genitals tends to be more aggressive. He will tend to both keep other males away from his female and deposit a larger amount deeper than his competition. Few sperm ever get credit for coming in second place.
Is he African American? Why would you ask that? Did they teach you in your medical school that African Americans have bigger "organs"? Organs? Does he have a Wurlitzer?
African American penises come in all sizes, from small to average to big, just as Caucasian penises do.
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