Can he be TOO big?

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Registered: 08-08-2005
Can he be TOO big?
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Fri, 08-19-2005 - 10:07am


After many years of complaining about small penis' I think I've ran into a worse problem. I didn't think it was possible, but I think my new sex partner is "bottoming out." I always thought this was a joke! But it hurts kinda while we have sex each time his penis hits it, and then really hurts after sex. I don't know if there is any way to avoid this without letting go of my favorite positions!

He said he's never had this problem before, which I don't believe because he is very big! Could I have a small vagina? (I feel stupid asking that.)

Or are we just not compatible?

GRR! He's really good too!

Kayla

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Registered: 06-14-2002
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 9:49pm

I still have the 8-Tracks ........

CH

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 9:57pm

I threw all mine out, no 8 track player anymore and since I ditch everything they bit the dust a long time ago.


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Registered: 03-24-2005
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 10:24pm
Yes...I'm 21 and I actually owned a ton of them and would play them on this old player before they wore out after being used too much.
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Registered: 04-04-2005
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 12:35am

"(blondeguitarman)
I have dated all sizes...the guy before was probably smaller than average. And I loved him...and it didn't matter his size. I never judged him before we had sex, and I'm glad I didn't, I was pleasantly surprised! This is why I say, just know what you have, and learn how to use it. I understand (as should all women) men aren't molded. Each one is different and if some women won't have sex with you because of your penis size, then you should be glad you never had sex with her."

Hey Kayla,
You seem like a very cool person. I hope other folks reading this thread will pick up on your attitude. You rock. blonde

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Registered: 07-22-2004
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 2:03am

>>I threw all mine out, no 8 track player anymore and since I ditch everything they bit the dust a long time ago.<<

GAAASP!!!

You did WWWWHAT??!!

 

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Registered: 08-12-2002
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 2:08am

seroiusly, how big does he think nipples are? if I EVER had my breasts touched the way that cows are milked, the guy would end up with a black eye, so he could sympathize in the pain he caused.

Janet

 


 


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Registered: 01-02-2001
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 4:59am

I think you guys are missing his meaning. Successfully milking a cow takes finesse and technique. Grabbing her teats and just yanking on them will have similar results to doing the same to a woman; you will probably get painfully kicked. You also have to be constantly aware of her responses to what you are doing even when you have it pretty much right because cows can be really moody like a few women I know. ;)

You also have to guard the milk bucket and one of the ways to do this is to keep the top of your head pressed into her flank so you can feel the tightening of the muscles signalling movement of her leg to kick or even just to reposition it. We had one cow that was so tall that she could step over my left knee and into the bucket I was holding petween my knees.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 7:42am

Oh Para, that's me, I hate stuff laying around, hate clutter, and if it's just laying around collecting dust, it goes!


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Registered: 12-20-2004
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 10:47am

My 8 tracks were thrown out with my frayed bell bottoms and my desert boots..lol

Kayla, I guess MY definition of a perfect fit is both are compltely satisfyed from penetration #1...lol

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 10:55am

Sorry, but you both seem to missing MY point....I object to the rude comparison. I'm quite certain that most women feel the same, so no, it's not MY particular "testiness" in question here.

Just as men don't appreciate being called dogs or pigs, women don't appreciate the cow comparison. Any comparison to an animal is offensive.

But I completely understood the "point" Sum was trying to make, just disagreeing with his comparison of humans to animals.

Having a great milking technique does NOT necessarily mean that you know how to treat human breasts. Sorry. And the insinuation that they're somehow the same, is not only incorrect, it's disrespectful.

Human women have breasts, cows have udders. Women don't need milking for relief of discomfort, maybe YOU and Sum don't get that but there's a BIG difference.




Edited 8/25/2005 1:44 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001

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