Can he be TOO big?
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Can he be TOO big?
| Fri, 08-19-2005 - 10:07am |
After many years of complaining about small penis' I think I've ran into a worse problem. I didn't think it was possible, but I think my new sex partner is "bottoming out." I always thought this was a joke! But it hurts kinda while we have sex each time his penis hits it, and then really hurts after sex. I don't know if there is any way to avoid this without letting go of my favorite positions!
He said he's never had this problem before, which I don't believe because he is very big! Could I have a small vagina? (I feel stupid asking that.)
Or are we just not compatible?
GRR! He's really good too!
Kayla

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Psst...hey Tish,
I'm not taking a side on this, I'm just looking for clarity everybody.
Was there a comparison made between a woman and a cow?, or was the comparison made between body parts only, such as breasts in this case?
Not saying that it makes a difference for those who 'choose' to be offended by it, but did posters say that women are like cows?...or did they simply mention the similarity breast-wise only when it comes to handling them, and then it was taken the wrong way anyway?
Just confused, cause I for whatever reason took it as what one believes in comparing how the nipples are handled and not in comparing an actual cow to a woman as a whole. Did I misunderstand the meaning of it or is it just being taken personally regardless? Thanks in advance for any clarity. me so bad, lol
C H A R A C T E R
No Player anymore .... but I still have a couple of dozen 8-tracks. Even one quadraphonic (used one track for front speakers and the third one for the back speakers). Oh well ...
CH
I found your surprise.
No, not comparing women with cows, just the handling of body parts.
Both of my sons were C-sections, first one an emergency and second one because my pelvic structure was too small which the doctors figured would be the case after doing the section on my first.
Kat and Tish,
Would you object equally to comparisons like "sleek as a cat" or "having feline grace". My GF has a cat that she is trying to put on a diet because it is obscenely obese and goes plop when it jumps down from its favorite perch in the window.
I think that if you will reread my previous post on the cow thing, I made it pretty clear that the stereotype comparisons are not only unacceptably rude and crude but are also intellectually stupid.
I also think that uninvited ham-handed pawing of a womans breasts deserves a swift kick at the very least. Still, cutting off his hands should be reserved for the rare extreme cases of totally incorrigible repeat offenders.
By the same token, I would respectfully suggest that responding with hackles bristling and claws extended is a bit of an extreme response to what I percieve as an unintended breach of etiquitte motivated by a desire to bring personal experience of getting kicked for ham-handed treatment and learning a universal truth from the experience.
Yes, pelvic size is one reason for c-sections, but that's certainly not the only reason. My mother had a c-section because her dr.felt that she could not delivery safely because her vagina was so small even at full dilation. They would not allow the vagina to be destroyed in the process of giving birth, in those instances. The potential blood loss of the mother and trauma to the baby has to be considered in each case.
Edited 8/25/2005 6:28 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
Geritolflirt, you're not getting my drift.
Edited 8/25/2005 6:06 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
Edited 8/25/2005 6:04 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
Kat, my grandmother had a saying that she used for advice to the young girls from her daughters down to her greatgranddaughters and my Mother has continued the tradition. I hope that my daughers will do likewise.
That advice was that, "If you tease a dog long enough, he will eventually bite you." While I don't think I need to expound on what she meant, there is no question that she was making a comparison between men and dogs. From your logic, I should have a right to be deeply offended by that comparison and indeed, I could choose to do so if I wished.
Instead, I "choose" to follow her advice to me that taking offense to other people's words when no offense was intended was a sign of immaturity. Experience has taught me that tendencies toward making such a choice can also result from conditioning. That does not detract from her point that making such a choice rarely results in a better functioning society. In point of fact, the usual result is unnecessary discord and stress on all parties involved.
My grandmother got these bits of wisdom from her mother, Granny D. Granny D was a plain spoken woman from the hills of N. Carolina who could neither read nor write and who I doubt ever ever had occasion to ponder the deeper implications of the lessons she taught. She simply knew that they worked. I have no doubt that she would have gladly and freely used an analogy comparing getting kicked by a cow to being slapped by a woman for basically the same reason.
Her wonderous sense of humor would have found it as astoundingly funny as the time as a smally boy I learned the hard way the danger of bending over to pull on clean underwear while backed up to a hot wood stove on a cold winter morning. I didn't see a damn thing funny about it but she was laughing her ass off as she was slathering my blistered backside with fresh cow's butter. Just before she went to the Lord, I found myself joining in her infectious laughter at remembering the incident.
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