Can he be TOO big?

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Can he be TOO big?
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Fri, 08-19-2005 - 10:07am


After many years of complaining about small penis' I think I've ran into a worse problem. I didn't think it was possible, but I think my new sex partner is "bottoming out." I always thought this was a joke! But it hurts kinda while we have sex each time his penis hits it, and then really hurts after sex. I don't know if there is any way to avoid this without letting go of my favorite positions!

He said he's never had this problem before, which I don't believe because he is very big! Could I have a small vagina? (I feel stupid asking that.)

Or are we just not compatible?

GRR! He's really good too!

Kayla

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Fri, 08-26-2005 - 11:51am

Geritol, I also had a very wise and insightful granny, I think many of us are lucky in that regard. And she always told me to speak my mind, but to speak it plainly so there's less room for unintentional offense, misinterpretation or misunderstanding. You never know who's listening, or in this case, reading, and what they've experienced in life. And I take and value her advice as well.




Edited 8/26/2005 5:53 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Fri, 08-26-2005 - 2:26pm
> have in so many words, said that there is no difference
Yes, "in so many words", you can add, imagine, and completely change what was said.
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Fri, 08-26-2005 - 3:35pm

Another bit of oldtime "wisdom" that I got indirectly from up another line of the family (a Pentacostal line) was that you should encourage your daughters to believe that long fingernails were desirable. The purpose was to make it more difficult for them to "abuse" themselves.

I have no direct knowlege of the reasons but both Gramma Pat and her mother, Granny D. wore short clipped fingernails and that bit of wisdom was absent from their teachings. Hmmm!

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Sat, 08-27-2005 - 12:38am

" I got so good that I could DOO milk squirts to a KAT ten feet away."

And again I ask....WHAT does your fantastic milking technique have to do with human females though?

Cows may have appreciated your talents but women have breasts...big difference. No, this KAT wouldn't be interested in being milked like a cow and can't imagine any other woman would be either. Maybe I'm wrong but I seriously doubt it."

Now this I would LOVE to see. Sumguy attempting to milk katmandoo. I am in hysterics just thinking about this one! Got a webcam anyone?

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Sat, 08-27-2005 - 1:16am

<<

Boys expect to be smaller than their dads or any adult male! But they HOPE that they won't be smaller than their peers.>>>

Kat has a very good point here. I did not think much of it at all that my Dad's was way bigger than mine when we showered together as a boy. BUT I was really surprised when I hit the showers in Jr high to discover that nearly all the guys my age were way longer than I was. Many were twice my length. Can you say ego deflator? And then the next year I learned that I was noticeably smaller than most of the younger guys too. YIKES! Think my peers didn't kid me about this? I got a reputation for being "different" from other boys as did a friend of mine who was at the opposite end of the spectrum. Maybe being a bit bigger than average is considered cool - but too big is grounds for being put down as much as being too small is. My BIG friend would not even date until he was out of college he was so insecure about his size. I, on the other hand, had wonderful gfs all thru high school and college. Who let the kidding get to them the most?

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Mon, 08-29-2005 - 6:49pm
No chance of that happening. Like my dear old granny would say, not unless he wants to pull back a nub instead of a hand! LOL!
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Mon, 08-29-2005 - 8:38pm
Sorry to disappoint, but these days it's all commercially done with a vacuum and sterilized equipment. Not worried here, as I've been bit and kicked by 1000 lb ladies having a bad day. Have also had my whole arm in the business end during troubled births. If it's less than half a ton, I can handle it. Bring it on. ROFL.
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Tue, 08-30-2005 - 11:27am

You're not disappointing ME, honey. Maybe blonde though.

So, how do your lady friends respond to being hooked up to a milking machine now instead of benefitting from all your years of milking magic? LOL!




Edited 8/30/2005 11:29 am ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Tue, 08-30-2005 - 12:20pm

Milking machines, whole arm in the business,


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