Can he be TOO big?

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Registered: 08-08-2005
Can he be TOO big?
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Fri, 08-19-2005 - 10:07am


After many years of complaining about small penis' I think I've ran into a worse problem. I didn't think it was possible, but I think my new sex partner is "bottoming out." I always thought this was a joke! But it hurts kinda while we have sex each time his penis hits it, and then really hurts after sex. I don't know if there is any way to avoid this without letting go of my favorite positions!

He said he's never had this problem before, which I don't believe because he is very big! Could I have a small vagina? (I feel stupid asking that.)

Or are we just not compatible?

GRR! He's really good too!

Kayla

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Registered: 08-20-2004
Sat, 08-20-2005 - 1:17am
If you've complained about small penises in the past, you do not have a small vagina.
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Registered: 11-15-2003
Sat, 08-20-2005 - 9:42am

Sumguy,

As interesting as your reasoning is, it has nothing to do with science, just wishful thinking I suspect. Interesting points though.

Scott.

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Registered: 06-15-2005
Sat, 08-20-2005 - 11:36am
i am sorry but i am speaking from experience and i know the size is not based on only race but i just did some research the other day and it is proven according to my studies that african american men have larger organs so you can say anything.
i believe that everyone is entitled to their opinion and this is mine.
what is a WURLITZER?
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Registered: 07-26-2005
Sat, 08-20-2005 - 12:03pm

NOW you're doing research? Fifteen years after receiving your MD? Can you cite exactly where you found this "information"? I'd like to study it myself! Regardless of your "studies".....what possible difference would it make if the man is African American, or Oriental for that matter......the problem is his size, not his race.

A Wurlitzer is an organ! "Organs" in physiology are things like lungs, kidneys, liver, heart. A man's sexual appendage is called a penis. His reproductive "organs" are called testicles.

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Registered: 08-20-2004
Sat, 08-20-2005 - 12:20pm
I too believe African men are, on average, larger. I believe the Kinsey had a graph based on race and this revealed African men tend to be larger. I believe Kinsey's assistent said this as well.
But on the same token, in order for a woman to accomodate a larger man, she must have a vagina large enough to handle it.
I think most women believe that all vaginas are the same size, but after speaking with women and finding some that bottom out at 5 inches and others that can easily handle 12 inches, it's clear to me that women do come in different sizes. Besides if this were not true, every woman on the face of the planet would prefer exactly the same size penis.
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Registered: 07-26-2005
Sat, 08-20-2005 - 2:35pm

You're right.....on AVERAGE! Averages are determined by taking MANY numbers and averaging them out. So, if you take 1000 African American measurements, and average them out, the result will be a few millimeters higher than 1000 Caucasians. To get that "average", there are 1000 different measurments, from miniscule to huge.....and there are African Americans who have small penises, just as there are Caucasians with huge penises. I questioned the reason for asking the man's race.....it has no bearing on the OP's problem....he's big, no matter what his race.

I also question the term "big" in this case. The problem is caused by length, not overall size. And, you are right about the depth differences in some women...although if any woman was with a man that had a 12' penis.....adjustments would have to be made. Vaginal size, as opposed to depth is a different matter. MOST women can accomodate a very large man widthwise......as the vaginal muscles, if relaxed, can stretch enough to allow an 8 or 10 pound baby to pass thru. No man is THAT big! But, as with anything else to do with human beings, there are some exceptions, but they are rare.

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Registered: 06-14-2002
Sat, 08-20-2005 - 8:15pm

although if any woman was with a man that had a 12' penis.... The man would have a hard time walking .... 12' is 12 feet. 12" is 12 inches. I know it was a typo. But I had to laugh. Imagining a man with a 12 foot long penis. He could make love from the next room .....

CH

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sat, 08-20-2005 - 8:28pm

You don't miss a trick do you CH?


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Registered: 04-25-2005
Sat, 08-20-2005 - 9:35pm

Lol. That would be pretty crazy.

But answering the question .. or commenting shall I say. My boyfriend is pretty darn big too. I think Im going to start calling him Mr. Big. He wears magnums .. does that mean anything =) Anyways .. missionary is fine for us .. he can go all the way in but when he thrusts it pushes him in farther and it hurts so he stops. But doggie hurts more because its like direct contact with the vagina so he cant go too far or it will hit my cervix. But he knows how far to go in now.

Youre SO's is probably a great guy so no reason to give him up just because he has a BIG penis. There are 100s of way to fix it darlin'.

Kisses - Elle

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Registered: 04-01-2003
Sun, 08-21-2005 - 9:30am

Actually, I've seen on the Discovery Channel that while the top two Alpha males are fighting it out with each other, beating their chests and making lots of noise, one of the lower ranked males are the ones getting it on with the ladies. DNA tests on babies have confirmed this.

Mom and I started laughing when we saw this and I said "You mean while those two are creating a sound and fury, the one that slips up to the ladies and says "Hey baby, want me to peel that banana for you?" is the one scoring?" and mom laughed and said "Apparently!"

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