Can he be TOO big?
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Can he be TOO big?
| Fri, 08-19-2005 - 10:07am |
After many years of complaining about small penis' I think I've ran into a worse problem. I didn't think it was possible, but I think my new sex partner is "bottoming out." I always thought this was a joke! But it hurts kinda while we have sex each time his penis hits it, and then really hurts after sex. I don't know if there is any way to avoid this without letting go of my favorite positions!
He said he's never had this problem before, which I don't believe because he is very big! Could I have a small vagina? (I feel stupid asking that.)
Or are we just not compatible?
GRR! He's really good too!
Kayla

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Hey blonde......I'm not a guy, and I can only imagine the way a man feels about his penis. But I can't imagine ANY woman being so hurtful and blunt to say "is that all there is".....or any such thing. (I'm not saying I doubt you, just that as a woman, I don't want to think that any woman could be that stupid!)
I can also imagine that if I were a man, and a woman said something like that to me, first, I'd lose the erection.....and second, I would have to say something like "yes, that's it......and you'll never find out what I can do with it!", and pull those boxers back up and be on my way! Well, if it was HER place, I'd be on my way. If it was my place......I'd tell her "it's been nice..... there's the door, see ya!"
You say: "Men are not out to be great at providing pleasure. They just want to have big penises."
That is totally ridiculous! "MEN" are not all the same. Granted, some men are exactly as you say.....but they are the unhappy maladjusted men......NOT the majority, by any means. Those statements are like saying "Men are tall", or "Men have blond hair". There is nothing that all men are, or all women are.
MOST men ARE out to be great at providing pleasure. MOST men are very happy to have an "adequate" penis. And most women are very thankful for that!
Ok, so I was having a "senior moment"........not only was it not a typo, I had originally typed ", and for some stupid reason, went back and changed it to '! DUH!
However, have you ever heard of the Sadhu sect in India? Part of their religion or belief system is stretching the penis. I saw a picture of one of these guys, with a large rock tied to it, and it almost reached the ground! I did a search, and find several entries about it, even explaining how it works....but no pictures. They say it can be long enough to "sling around the neck", lol
After reading the gory explanation of how can be done......I can't imagine the thing WORKS anymore. Different strokes.........
My first boyfriend was very long and he had to learn not to penetrate fully in many positions.
I recommend a position for the long partner ;-) that worked for us that was VERY pleasurable. During missionary, close your legs tight and have him bring his legs on the outside of yours. As he pushes and withdraws, he will massage your clitoris at the same time and in this position, it stops him from fully penetrating while he still gets fully stroked. ;-)
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I saw a show about that, I believe on the Discovery channel.
The movie "100 Girls" has a guy that dangles weights from his penis to increase the size. In each scene he's in, there's more weight on the end. He ends up breaking his penis in the end. It's pretty funny.
Kayla
I think for those men in question, insecurity IS at the heart of the focus though. Bigger becomes better in some boy's and men's minds once they begin comparing themselves to their supposed "equals" in school.
Boys expect to be smaller than their dads or any adult male! But they HOPE that they won't be smaller than their peers.
Edited 8/23/2005 2:58 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
Unfortunately there are indeed women as well as men who say things that hurt folks - sometimes without thinking it through. I've met my share in life and I've also met some incredibly cool folks along the way too.
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