Can he be TOO big?

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Registered: 08-08-2005
Can he be TOO big?
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Fri, 08-19-2005 - 10:07am


After many years of complaining about small penis' I think I've ran into a worse problem. I didn't think it was possible, but I think my new sex partner is "bottoming out." I always thought this was a joke! But it hurts kinda while we have sex each time his penis hits it, and then really hurts after sex. I don't know if there is any way to avoid this without letting go of my favorite positions!

He said he's never had this problem before, which I don't believe because he is very big! Could I have a small vagina? (I feel stupid asking that.)

Or are we just not compatible?

GRR! He's really good too!

Kayla

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Registered: 07-06-2004
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 11:08am

> the *myth* that a woman's breast size determines how much milk she will produce
Being a former farmer who has milked both Guernsey and Holstein cows morning and night, I can definitely say feeling the fullness of the udder is an indication of milk production. Milking each of the four teats by hand has helped me with my technique with women. LOL.

> As for the testosterone level...
I also have worked at a bull farm. I will admit, a bull's swinging "melons" are bigger than mine. Do you know how much a bull emits with each session? Yes, size is an indication of production. ;-)

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Registered: 08-08-2005
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 11:31am


That's interesting. I didn't know that size was a indicator on how much sperm comes out. That doesn't sound right though. I've been with small guys that have more than the current guy...who has only a slight amount.

Kayla

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Registered: 07-26-2005
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 12:20pm

Oh, I know there are people like that.....but it's just hard for me to imagine how anyone could be that stupid, or cruel, or self-centered.

I once knew a man that was SO small, I couldn't believe it! I had 3 sons, and it reminded me of what they looked like at birth! I wasn't with him very long, and it wasn't because of his size. But I NEVER commented, and the funny part was that he didn't seem to know....and I let him keep his delusions, lol

That was many years ago, and I still giggle when I think about it.....but what did it hurt me to keep my mouth shut?

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Registered: 08-08-2005
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 1:31pm


It's good that you didn't say anything. I wouldn't want a guy commenting on how how small or big something was on me.

But I dated a guy that thought he was big. And...he wasn't small...but he shouldn't have been bragging about his size. I just let it go and let him think what he wanted. I laugh now, though.

Kayla

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 2:56pm

Well, as a human woman who breastfed two kids, each one for a year and a half and a woman who is far from well-endowed, I can assure you that the size of breasts has nothing to do with how much milk she produces.


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Registered: 12-20-2004
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 4:14pm
rain My comments didnt mean that only women with larger vaginas crave.I meant that some women know that they want a bigger penis...and many of those women who want a bigger penis is because they themselves have a bigger vagina.. Not too many women with small vagina yearn for a huge penis.
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Registered: 03-24-2005
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 4:21pm
Yes. Some men can be too large. I know that a woman expands naturally to accomdate him, but sometimes, the size is too large no matter what!
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Registered: 06-14-2002
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 4:29pm

Let me add on comment on breast feeding and breast size. My DW wanted to breast feed all of our children. Our son who was a voracious eater was the only one she was successfully with and she never failed to satisfy him. With the other three girls, she wasn't able to make it work because they were lazy eaters. She is an A/B cup. Now figure that into your equation on size.

CH

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Registered: 12-20-2004
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 4:32pm
tish what I meant by fitting perfectly was that neither one of us has to worry about accidentally hurting her if we get carried away..With a former partner I ALWAYS had to be careful about penetrating too far, and it did, to some extent dimish the experience for me.For her and her partner with the 9" penis she always had to be worried about him going in too far and hurting her...which dimished the experence for her. So your statement..."what I feel happens with most couples once they become comfortable being sexual together and find out what works for *them as a couple*, then they will fit together perfectly." didnt apply to neither one of us. Having to be careful during the sex act isn`t what I wanted and neither did she....In both our cases with our other mates, not too many positions worked, so we were definately limited as to what we could do..or at least as to the enthusiasm involved..lol.
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Registered: 06-14-2002
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 4:32pm

This is scary .... we both posted the same comments again ...... hmmmmm

BTW ... I felt real old yestereday. Went to Wally World, found the Bread Anthology CD and when I went to check it out, the checker asked what kind of music they did ..... she had never heard of them ....

Getting my cane out now (to help with my blistered feet)

CH

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