Also depends on how active and intense I am and how far alone I am in the event.
If she is on top and she is doing all or most of the "riding" I'm more likely to feel it.
It is an amazing feeling if you are going deliberatly slooow for a long time hold her down and slowly push her over the edge to her "little death". If I'm going slow like that I will feel it.
Of course sans raincost also helps all feeling.
Now with oral with some women that can really be felt and it can be a challenge to hold onto that bucking contracting kitty! LOL
If she exercises her kitty it helps make the contractions stronger and easier to feel.
Absolutely! And different women have different contraction patterns. Some have one big one. Some have a short series. Some go on contracting seemingly forever. And, of course, the number will vary from time to time, although I've found that women that only contract a few times almost never contract alot. Whereas the women that contract a lot almost always contact alot, even for less intense orgasms.
"And different women have different contraction patterns."
I can't comment on this because I've only felt the contractions with DW.
However, she has multiple orgasms and I can tell you they can be very different. During intercourse, sometimes her contractions are very strong and unmistakeable and sometimes I can barely feel them. Judging by her other reactions and what she says, the ones I feel the most strongly are the most intense for her. I tend to have some problems orgasming myself and frequently her contraction really help me get there.
We also do a lot of digital on her. Recently I've refined my technique to inserting my middle finger between her labial lips and moving the whole hand in circles instead of rubbing against her lips. I hold my hand firmly against her and sometimes barely move. With this technique I can feel her contractions, though again, they vary considerably in intensity.
Another way to tell if a woman has orgasmed is, during something like 69, to watch for anal contractions. Virtually all women experience anal contractions during orgasm, and for some is very noticeable...you could see it happening across the room. Of course, the facial expression is usually a dead giveaway, but there's no way to fake the anal contractions.
Your new technique sounds great but I think you have said that your wife somewhat like me and has a very sensitive clitoris (and does not like direct stimulation). If so, you may want to do exactly what you are doing, only start from the top of the mons and slide your middle (or index finger) down through the labia, but stop "before" you actually reach the glans of the clitoris (most of your finger will rest on the mons and only a portion of the flat of your finger will cover the shaft (utilizing the hood of course). I do not know if you are circumcised or not, but the clitoris works the same way an uncut penis does. It is covered by the clitoral hood which is very mobile and can be used to glide over the shaft and glans (in the very way the sheath does) and the added "cushion" makes it easier to provide just the right amount of pleasurable pressure (whereas any direct contact with the glans is intolerable). I know that some men cannot tolerate actual hands or fingers on the glans of their penis (as it is very sensitive as well), so if men are wondering they may want to simply project their own penile sensations onto how to handle a woman's clitoris. Of course, though, all women are different....so it's always best to ask her. But some men, even when told, still seem intimidated (not only because the clitoris is so tiny, but because their hands are usually much larger than a woman's)
I always enjoy your posts, taoist. Good to **see** you. ;-)
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I don't know about all men but Dh knows when I do.
he can feel it.
Hi lovlylady2006:
Can men feel a woman orgasm?
YES! My wife's vagina would rapidly contract.
Mac
dh can. by my.........contarcting and outwardly convulsing also by my facial expressions.
kate
Depends on the woman! Depends on the time!
Also depends on how active and intense I am and how far alone I am in the event.
If she is on top and she is doing all or most of the "riding" I'm more likely to feel it.
It is an amazing feeling if you are going deliberatly slooow for a long time hold her down and slowly push her over the edge to her "little death". If I'm going slow like that I will feel it.
Of course sans raincost also helps all feeling.
Now with oral with some women that can really be felt and it can be a challenge to hold onto that bucking contracting kitty! LOL
If she exercises her kitty it helps make the contractions stronger and easier to feel.
"And different women have different contraction patterns."
I can't comment on this because I've only felt the contractions with DW.
However, she has multiple orgasms and I can tell you they can be very different. During intercourse, sometimes her contractions are very strong and unmistakeable and sometimes I can barely feel them. Judging by her other reactions and what she says, the ones I feel the most strongly are the most intense for her. I tend to have some problems orgasming myself and frequently her contraction really help me get there.
We also do a lot of digital on her. Recently I've refined my technique to inserting my middle finger between her labial lips and moving the whole hand in circles instead of rubbing against her lips. I hold my hand firmly against her and sometimes barely move. With this technique I can feel her contractions, though again, they vary considerably in intensity.
taoist
Hey Taoist, haven't seen you around much!
Your new technique sounds great but I think you have said that your wife somewhat like me and has a very sensitive clitoris (and does not like direct stimulation). If so, you may want to do exactly what you are doing, only start from the top of the mons and slide your middle (or index finger) down through the labia, but stop "before" you actually reach the glans of the clitoris (most of your finger will rest on the mons and only a portion of the flat of your finger will cover the shaft (utilizing the hood of course). I do not know if you are circumcised or not, but the clitoris works the same way an uncut penis does. It is covered by the clitoral hood which is very mobile and can be used to glide over the shaft and glans (in the very way the sheath does) and the added "cushion" makes it easier to provide just the right amount of pleasurable pressure (whereas any direct contact with the glans is intolerable). I know that some men cannot tolerate actual hands or fingers on the glans of their penis (as it is very sensitive as well), so if men are wondering they may want to simply project their own penile sensations onto how to handle a woman's clitoris. Of course, though, all women are different....so it's always best to ask her. But some men, even when told, still seem intimidated (not only because the clitoris is so tiny, but because their hands are usually much larger than a woman's)
I always enjoy your posts, taoist. Good to **see** you. ;-)
Edited 10/2/2006 3:34 pm ET by rain_dancer_iam
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