Just because a woman isn't exhibiting obvious contractions, it doesn't necessarily mean that she's faking. For instance, I may often try and hold back an orgasm (as I'm into prolonging lust ;-)), but sometimes because I'm holding it back, one or two spasms may slip by me (and then they stop because I'm trying to stop it). It sort of sets things back a little (or lets out some steam...tee hee); however, I still feel satisfied enough or semi-satisfied. It happens so quickly, that there is no way it could be detected. I have even had some short or weaker orgasms (depending on the number it is). I wouldn't use "obvious" signs as the end-all, be all of proof.
Thanks for the good thoughts. I don't know all the technical details about her clitoris, but yes, she is VERY sensitive. Until about two months ago, I used to use my index finger and rub up and down against her lips. This definitely pleasured her, but was a little much on her sensitive clitoris. I also had a bit of a problem with what to do with my thumb and it sometimes dug into her when using my index finger. Now that I use my middle finger this problem is solved as my palm lays flat on her pubic mound. She doesn't trim or shave and I love the feeling of her silky hair under my hand while my finger is inside her juicy lips. In this position I don't rub at all, just slowly but firmly rotate my hand and finger. This pretty much solves the problems with her sensitivity and I really feel "plugged in" to her and connected because we are entwined and kissing at the same time. This is how I can usually feel indications of her contractions, though i can feel them more directly when I'm inside her during intercourse.
My gf's vagina always contracts when she orgasms either through intercourse or from oral, and there are always the facial expressions. But when she does have an orgasm when we have intercourse or when I finger her, the feeling is awsome.
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Rain dancer,
Thanks for the good thoughts. I don't know all the technical details about her clitoris, but yes, she is VERY sensitive. Until about two months ago, I used to use my index finger and rub up and down against her lips. This definitely pleasured her, but was a little much on her sensitive clitoris. I also had a bit of a problem with what to do with my thumb and it sometimes dug into her when using my index finger. Now that I use my middle finger this problem is solved as my palm lays flat on her pubic mound. She doesn't trim or shave and I love the feeling of her silky hair under my hand while my finger is inside her juicy lips. In this position I don't rub at all, just slowly but firmly rotate my hand and finger. This pretty much solves the problems with her sensitivity and I really feel "plugged in" to her and connected because we are entwined and kissing at the same time. This is how I can usually feel indications of her contractions, though i can feel them more directly when I'm inside her during intercourse.
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