Can men tell if we fake an orgasam

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Registered: 10-10-2007
Can men tell if we fake an orgasam
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Wed, 10-10-2007 - 10:56am

I was with a bloke a few weeks back and he was utter rubish in bed,
I am not a person to tell them to get off so i just got on with it and faked an orgasam.

He really went with it too.

Also my mate sent me this link of people orgsaming, and you just see there faces, nothing too rude.

I cant tell if its a fake....

Tell me what you guys think
http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu...oID=16959 933

thanks

Sarah

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Wed, 10-10-2007 - 11:31am

Very few men can tell if the woman is normally orgasmic.......she knows the right sounds and movements to make.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 10-10-2007 - 12:01pm

Welcome to the board sarah4477.

I haven't spent time faking orgasms, but I have had guys *think* I had an orgasm when I didn't (like if I get a little louder because I'm close to having an orgasm). I know my DH has recently spent a lot of energy trying to identify exactly when I have an orgasm, and for the most part, I don't think I could fake it with him now. Until a recent conversation we had, I didn't even realize it was so difficult for him to tell. I think it has to do with how active the female is during sex. Since I'm usually fairly active, use my muscles a lot, and have multiple orgasms most of the time, I think it confused him a little. Also, both the intensity and type of orgasm can differ, so that adds to a little confusion sometimes.

I do think I could fake it with a lover who wasn't so familiar with me, and I don't think he would be able to tell the difference. My question would be "what's the point"? I don't see the value in faking an orgasm.













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Registered: 09-13-2007
Wed, 10-10-2007 - 2:22pm
I have no doubt that any woman is capable of fooling her partner into thinking she's over the top. However, I agree with Misty. What is the point in faking? If he's not doing if for you, why would you want him to believe that he IS doing it for you? I personally would hate it if I found out that my wife had been faking it because it's like a give-up. If she wants or needs more, I am more than willing to accommodate. And if she doesn't, she can just say so. I think I can tell when my wife is actually having one... because it doesn't happen that often during IC. I don't think she'd fake it only on rare occasions... And if she does... she's pretty good at it.
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Registered: 08-16-2006
Wed, 10-10-2007 - 8:18pm

Bf knows ive never o'ed with him and when we had 1st having sex it was an open thing between us that i don't know when i was going to have an orgasm with him. being the good guy he is he has never pushed me asking me every time "did u cum? " he has asked once or said u didnt O this time did u? and when i think about it now i do make noise in bed and its because i feel strong sensations although i havent Orgasmed yet with him.

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Registered: 01-04-2006
Thu, 10-11-2007 - 10:02am

Yes a long term partner can guess pretty well if their partner is faking an orgasm.

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Registered: 06-24-2006
Thu, 10-11-2007 - 5:46pm
Have you ever watched "When Harry met Sally"?...They cant tell...but why would you want to fake it anyway?, takes away from the real pleasure of it.


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Registered: 11-26-2004
Thu, 10-11-2007 - 9:51pm

Hey there Steve,


It's sort of akin to ED in men.

Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )