Can Men Tell When You're...FAKING?

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Registered: 04-06-2004
Can Men Tell When You're...FAKING?
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Sat, 08-28-2004 - 10:41pm
Is there a way that men cant tell PHYSICALLY when a woman is faking the Big O? Here is my situation.

My DH and I made a promise a long time ago to NEVER deny each other sex. (Unless, ofcourse, one of us has a health issue.) So no matter what, day or night, awake or sleep, if he wants sex....he gets sex.

But my sweetie has this ego trip. He WILL NOT stop unless I reach a climax. I mean...the man will fight against ALL odds...bite the bullet...and repress his BIG O just to make me come.

So what's the problem you ask? Well....sometimes I just don't feel like having sex. And on those occasions, I want him to do his THING and be done. As quick as possible. But If I don't climax, he keeps going. He's like the friggin' energizer bunny. He'll keep going and going and going. So.....well....you see....I ummmmm...OKAY DAMNIT..I FAKE IT!!!

I already don't want to do it....why would I give him a reason to keep going?

So back to my question. Can men FEEL when a woman reaches a climax? Cause if they can...boy...my husband would be pretty pissed about the last few weeks.

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Registered: 04-19-2003
Mon, 08-30-2004 - 1:02am
Don't ya just hate that!
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Registered: 04-01-2003
Mon, 08-30-2004 - 7:12pm
You don't have to say "I'm not in the mood" because that implies that you aren't in the mood for sex. But there are times when I just *know* it's not going to happen for me and I simply say "I don't think it's going to happen, so don't worry about it. I'm enjoying *you* enjoying yourself." And Dh knows I'm telling the truth, so he can relax too.
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Registered: 10-18-2003
Wed, 09-01-2004 - 7:58pm
My partners have all been able to tell. I'd never be able to hide it. My orgasms are very dramatic and the muscle contractions alone are a dead giveaway.

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