can somebody tell me

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Registered: 07-15-2005
can somebody tell me
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Fri, 07-15-2005 - 3:23pm
when ever i am giving my man oral sex he likes for me to put my finger in his anus is this normal???????
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 07-15-2005 - 3:48pm

It's normal for him if he likes it and it's not unusual at all.


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Registered: 07-15-2005
Fri, 07-15-2005 - 3:53pm
well he says that im the only one he has ever done that with and he enjoys it alot but i was just wondering how normal that is so thanx for the help
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Registered: 03-06-2005
Fri, 07-15-2005 - 8:25pm

no, it is very abnormal.
Normal is you on your back, him crushing you with his weight so you can't breath for about two minutes after no foreplay, then him rolling over and falling asleep snoring loudly.
(dang, I got too many female friends)

Thank heaven for abnormal. :)

SLIGHTLY more seriously...
The only thing normal about sex is wondering if we are normal...

WHAT DOES IT MATTER what other people do? You really want him to find sex with you "routine" and "ordinary"? Hopefully, your other attributes would keep his attention, then... What does it matter if he's the only person in the world that enjoys a little anal play during oral? If he enjoys it and you don't mind doing it, you should be thrilled that you two have something special between you...and have him return the favor to you, I suspect you might enjoy it, abnormal though it may be. :)

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Registered: 01-02-2005
Fri, 07-15-2005 - 11:40pm

It seems common if you lurk here long enough. If you're massaging his prostate while you're in there, then it will increase the volume of his ejaculate, which will intensify his orgasm. Also for some guys it just plain feels good. Not my cup of tea, but to each his own.

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Registered: 02-26-2001
Sat, 07-16-2005 - 12:15am
Didn't Freud once say that the only true sexual perversion was celibacy? Also, I believe that Kinsey said that there is no normal or abnormal with sex, just typical and atypical. In that sense I would think that anyone who enjoys anal stimulation is atypical, but definitely not abnormal.


Edited 7/16/2005 10:21 am ET ET by rice71
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Sat, 07-16-2005 - 10:29am
I read an article on the physiology of orgasms that said that, for both men and women, the muscles in the genital area spasm involuntarily during an orgasm. One of the muscles that does this is the sphincter, so that if there is something in the anus at the time of orgasm to prevent it from closing completely, the nerve endings around the anus will be stimulated, thus intensifying the orgasm. This would explain why many women who have had orgasms from anal sex say they are more intense than orgasms from other means. The same would apply to men who have an orgasm when they have a finger, or other object, inserted in their anus. It does make one wonder.