Can Trust Be Regained in a Relationship?
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Can Trust Be Regained in a Relationship?
| Sun, 09-19-2004 - 12:24am |
I have read serval post about affairs, and one thing that comes up a lot is being honest

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No, but only because we have no commitment, I have "permission" to have sex with whoever, I don't have to lie, or
who_reallyknows
who, it was pretty much out of the blue.
So you did even know she was unhappy?
who_reallyknows
When she cheated it was with a former friend of mine who played college basketball who was of another race than we were(if that matters). This guy got into drugs, was kicked off of the basketball team, and , at the time she cheated with him, (10 years later)he worked on a sanitation team who picks up garbage. Sooo not her type. I only found out because she was missing from home more than normal, so I got suspicious and follwed her one night. Seeing this scumbag was proof who low her self esteem had sunk.
Answers to your questions.. I stay for over 10 years, tried to make the best of it "played the game" for my daughters sake . I didnt want her to grow up without a father ,like i had to. She was a promising athlete (softball pitcher) and I wanted to help her live her dream the best I could (she now pitches for a Divison 1 major college)
Yes I tried to make a good marriage, we never fought..it was no sex no loving , just friends type of marriage.
No I do not regret staying in the marriage for my daighter, she is now set up for life, and I will take some credit for that.
I did miss out on years of sex, staying married to this woman, but since I left her , I met a wonderful woman who is making sure that I am making up for lost time. Plus we just got married in Jamaica.
I couldn't find this post tonight I looked right over it. It is too late tonight for me to answer though, I must have sleep...lol
Didn't get much rest last night, as you read I'm sure, anyway I'll be back in the morning...
One last thing, what is the deal with your name
who_reallyknows
I am tempted to do things I should not like everyone else but I don't think my wife would let me violate her trust and I would not let her violate mine. I expect her to do what she says she will do and be where she says she is going to be. If she wants to be with someone else then it is time for us to part company.
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