can U tell an increase in libido?

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Registered: 01-25-2008
can U tell an increase in libido?
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Fri, 02-15-2008 - 10:58pm

This kind of goes along with my other question.

 

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sat, 02-16-2008 - 9:49am

I definitely think participating on the boards help to fuel the fire. You never know what might spark your own interest, and reading the ideas from others can be great to broaden your horizons.

While the members here are a relatively small sampling of people in the big picture, it is also sometimes helpful to go forward when you realize that others have done or do the same things. Since IRL, very few of us talk about our most intimate experiences, it can be very easy to wonder if your activity is "normal".

Being here, you learn that "normal" is different for everyone, and very dependent on the individual couple.

When I first came to the boards, I was soaking up posts, and they did keep my mind working in overdrive. Now that I've been hanging out here for a year or so, I have heard the same things repeated, so I would say I don't get as many new ideas as quickly. On the flip side of that, I have been able to watch the relationship between couples develop to new levels. Watching in the sense of "reading" and knowing the board member from the sense of community and friendship that is developed here. Overall, it's been a very positive experience for my entire outlook on sex and what I want long-term within my own relationship.



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Registered: 01-25-2008
Sat, 02-16-2008 - 10:05pm
Thanks so much for your input!

 

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Sat, 02-16-2008 - 10:08pm
You're welcome :-)


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Registered: 02-12-2008
Sun, 02-17-2008 - 3:07pm

I definately say the knowledge I have gained from this board has helped me to control/satisfy my newly hightened libido.


I was feeling an increase in my libido which promoted me to find this board, and while I have not posted in a few days, it has really helped me in the way that there were things I did not understand.


For example, at the time of my intial post, I had never had a "true" clitoral orgasm - and that was primarily due to my misunderstanding of

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Registered: 01-25-2008
Sun, 02-17-2008 - 5:23pm

That is so great!