Can the vagina be smaller?

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Registered: 09-08-2004
Can the vagina be smaller?
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Wed, 09-08-2004 - 2:36am
I have had sex with 5 partners total. My first partner expressed surprise when I lost my virginity because he said I was not very "tight". I am a petite woman in good health but this complex I have about the size of my vagina has caused me to refrain from having a boyfriend for several years now.

It seems to help just a little bit if I can not get too excited because then I tend to get very ,very lubricated and that makes it all the more slippery- dryness feels a little tighter. Of course the dryness is not very stimuating for me and normally only happens if sex occurs for more than 20 minutes. I get so excited about the anticipation but wind up feeling not much sensation.

I had one partner (my last one) who was not very long but was quite thick- this was the absolute best sex of my life but I think he was exceptional and it may be hard to find another man like him. There were even had times with him when it felt too loose.

So,I went to two different GYN's. They did an exam and said it felt like my vagina was very normal in size- nothing can be done but to try the kegal excercises. I have been doing those faithfully for several months.

I was just wondering if there are people out there that experience this issue? What do you do?

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Registered: 05-16-2003
Fri, 09-10-2004 - 3:39pm
I measure DH often! It's quite a turn-on and fun for both of us. He's very well endowed in length and girth. I keep a dressmakers tape in my night table as a foreplay "toy". I've never measured how far he can shoot but we do have stains on the wall above our headboard.

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