can you get pregnat with out the pill?
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can you get pregnat with out the pill?
| Tue, 05-03-2005 - 10:58am |
i'm a virgin and i wasnt to know if you can get pregnat if you don't use the pill?
| Tue, 05-03-2005 - 10:58am |
Edited 5/3/2005 11:10 am ET ET by worrieddadof3
Honey, if you don't know how a woman gets pregnant, then you have NO business having sex.
Do you know what "the pill" is? Do you have any idea how a woman gets pregnant? You'd better start educating yourself, or you'll wind up pregnant.
Also, aside from pregnancy, have you heard of sexually transmitted diseases? That can be worse than getting pregnant....like you could get HIV, which becomes AIDS, and you die! Or you get genital warts, which means you can't have sex with anyone except another person who has it, or you will be spreading the disease like typhoid Mary. There are lots of nasty diseases out there, and they are called sexually transmitted, because you get them from having unprotected, or unsafe sex.
Kimmie
Well, I'm pleased that your asking.
Yes, you can get pregnant even though you are a virgin. Plenty of virgins have gotten pregnant in the past. Technically speaking, you are a virgin only if you haven't had a penis in your vagina. Being a virgin has got nothing to do with being able to get pregnant.
Anytime that semen from a guy gets over or into your vagina you can get pregnant. When many guys get aroused and erect they ooze a clear slippery fluid (called "pre-cum" by most people) out the tip of their penis before they orgasm (or "cum"). That can contain sperm too. So you have to be careful to avoid getting ANY fluid from a penis near or in your vagina.
You need to be careful if you are playing around and giving a guy manual sex by using your hand on him or if you are giving a BJ. In fact, be careful where the fluids end up any time you are playing around with a penis. It would pay for you to spend some time learning more about your body and how it works as well as learning more about contraception and birth control.