Can you scare men away..................
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Can you scare men away..................
| Wed, 09-06-2006 - 1:16pm |
Hey all!
This is just a general question that I would love to hear viewpoints on. I would especially love to if a couple guys could get in on the and voice their opinions!
Do you think, that you can scare a guy away by wanting sex too much?
I.E. I am a woman and I have a very HIGH sex drive! I just hooked up with an ex boyfriend recently and want to do it again and again and again........
Anyhow, can you scare someone away by wanting sex too much?
Thoughts???

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Hi rain_dancer_iam:
In dating in the late 60's and early 70's, I did NOT run into the passionate woman. The women I dated acted as sex was a duty...My wife of 30 years also acts as sex was/is a duty...
Mac
Age: 57
"In dating in the late 60's and early 70's, I did NOT run into the passionate woman. The women I dated acted as sex was a duty...My wife of 30 years also acts as sex was/is a duty..."
Not surprising, considering that sex was considered "a wifely duty" prior to that time. New ideas are slow to come by...(remember on television when husbands and wives slept in separate beds?....We've come a long way since then!) ;-)
Another thing relating to women's sexuality I have read tidbits of here and there, is that male androgens (testosterone) may not actually be responsible (at least not wholly) for women's libido. Our hormones are comprised more of a mixture of androgens or a series of events (although little has been studied about women's sexuality thus far, I await future studies to demystify it). You can't fix something that you have no knowledge of, correct? I have always suspected that testosterone alone is not wholly responsible for the female libido (I have never met a man whose libido I not only matched, but whose I have many times surpassed...., but I do not). In any event, I do think that overall, womens' emotional state is highly influential over their libido (which is why viagra has little effect on the female libido). But it may be more than that...or a combination of both...we shall see....
Here is an interesting read:
http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=47897
Edited 9/23/2006 2:51 pm ET by rain_dancer_iam
I think you are missing out big time, darlin....
I am 35 and have been married for 13 years and I love sex more than my husband. I was always a "good girl" and have only been with one other person besides my husband. I can't get enough. I have not always been this way... it started when I was about 28 or 29 and I realized sex is not bad (even though growing up in a Southern Baptist home we were always told it was bad) and I also realized if I didn't start enjoying it, my husband would find someone who did enjoy it...
One of the major things I have changed is what I wear under my clothes. No one knows except me and whomever I choose to show. Red or black silk from Victoria's Secret makes me feel sexy even if I am not wearing sexy clothes. Then the sexy feeling I get from knowing I have a "secret" underneath my clothes comes out in everything I do.
By the way, my husband does not ruin my innocent reputation, so I think you are wrong when you say if men you know are with sexual women, they would be talking about it.
tee hee You do have a great sense of humor, Rice (incidentally, a great female libido enhancer ;-))!
None of those side effects seem too serious.... Now, if I developed an obsession for breasts; began having the urge to stand up and pee; became possessive of the remote control; and rolled over and ignored my husband after orgasming, those are truly characteristics of concern! tee hee
Edited 9/24/2006 9:49 am ET by rain_dancer_iam
Hi rice71:
it was a case of it not even occurring to me that a woman might actually WANT to have sex, as opposed to simply being WILLING to have sex if the man wanted to.
Yes, the women sure did NOT initiate sex. It was my my wife who TAUGHT me how to be a better lover. Yet, she also did NOT WANT sex.
Mac
"and rolled over and ignored my husband after orgasming"
You mean that there are women who DON'T do that!!
Hmmmm.....no "LOL" and no laughing emoticon.....so are you being serious, Rice?
Oh come on! Even where the stereotype pertains to a man, you're going to push that onto women as well? You didn't even have women who loved to cuddle after sex; not even your own wife? :-(
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