Can you scare men away..................

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Registered: 03-15-2006
Can you scare men away..................
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Wed, 09-06-2006 - 1:16pm

Hey all!

This is just a general question that I would love to hear viewpoints on. I would especially love to if a couple guys could get in on the and voice their opinions!

Do you think, that you can scare a guy away by wanting sex too much?

I.E. I am a woman and I have a very HIGH sex drive! I just hooked up with an ex boyfriend recently and want to do it again and again and again........

Anyhow, can you scare someone away by wanting sex too much?

Thoughts???

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Registered: 11-26-2004
Mon, 09-25-2006 - 6:17am

"I'm guessing that I'm not the only man who is tired of that old stereotype."

I want to believe that there are (alleged) male cuddlers out there, Rice....but there has been little proof in my experience with men..... ;-)

"Actually, I think the cuddling afterward is the thing that I miss the most. Been a long time since I've been able to get a cuddle of any kind."

:-(

I never met a man who did not love to cuddle, Rice, which is why it always bothered me whenever I would hear how men hate it. In fact, because I heard rumours about it when I was young, I made the effort to not make them feel obligated to do it...but it was they who insisted on it (to my surprise, of course)....

I hear ya....I would miss the cuddling the most as well....

Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 09-26-2006 - 12:49am

Rice, I have been reading all these interesting posts here and got a tremendous laugh from your joke about the woman who put on a testosterone patch.

I am also puzzled why you still do not believe that there are many women who are overtly sexual and aggressive. These are the same questions you have had for a year or more. So many women have tried to convince you that you are greatly mistaken, but you hang on to that same idea.

My wife who is 71 is about equally sexual as I am. She enjoys her sexuality because I have done my best to promote her sexual enjoyment. Perhaps there was some strange impurities in the water where you grew up that caused non-aggressive females. Lol I think that search for the answer to this question is what keeps you posting here on LTAS.

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Registered: 09-21-2006
Tue, 09-26-2006 - 12:17pm
In my experience it depends on the guy and your relationship with the guy. I had sex with a guy once and then I wanted it all the time. We hooked up a few more times and then he completely lost interest. His answer was, I feel like you are getting attached. I have had this situation happen a few times. I told the second guy that I wasn't getting attached, that I just liked having sex with him. I didn't feel comfortable having sex with him anymore so we stopped. My ex-boyfriend said he couldn't believe how much I wanted sex. He also told me that he thought I had a higher sex drive than anyone he knows. He wasn't complaining about it, just a little surprised. It didn't scare him off, I was the one to break off that relationship. So I guess you just need to make it clear to the guy what you are looking for. The casual sex relationships normally don't last long. If I've been physical with a guy for awhile and he has sex with another woman, thats it I'm done. I just think that this is not very "clean" and I don't want to be sharing a guy like that. Its also very hard not to get attached to someone when you are sleeping with them. You eventually reach a point where you either have to s**t or get off the pot, in this situation. You either have to take the relationship to the next level or just end things. Hope this helps!

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