can you take the heat & last longer.?

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can you take the heat & last longer.?
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Thu, 05-10-2007 - 3:55pm
What do you guys think about how long or how short your man can keep up during sex?? do you think its good or bad?? If he doesnt last that long during sex does that mean you were too good or he just cant keep up??


Edited 5/10/2007 4:03 pm ET by vvs1_princess
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Thu, 05-10-2007 - 4:07pm

Well DH can last as long as I need him to. Now that is!
I know I'm good because DH says I'm better then him and he needs
to step his game up! lol We are both good at what we do.
The only time he can't last long enough is when it's been a while
but that hardly ever happens. If it does I'll get him revved up again
and he can last much longer our sessions usually last from 30 min to
a hour. The job can be done in 10 min if we want it to! lol

Kareese

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Thu, 05-10-2007 - 4:42pm

Ejaculating too soon or lasting a long time doesn't mean the sex was great or not.

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Thu, 05-10-2007 - 7:19pm
Tish, was your DH always like this since the beginning of your relationship or was this something that took time and effort to learn? What I would like to know is HOW? Do you use the stop start method? Or is there constant penetration and thrusting the entire time?
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Thu, 05-10-2007 - 9:02pm

As long as I've

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Fri, 05-11-2007 - 7:44am
What do you guys think about how long or how short your man can keep up during sex??


My DH has gotten much better at lasting longer with age. Sometimes he practices the start stop method, which is not as noticeable as some may think it is. He just slows down a bit or we change positions.



do you think its good or bad??


It's great. He likes for me to have several orgasms, so I certainly can't complain about that! He can usually cum if I tell him I want him too.



If he doesnt last that long during sex does that mean you were too good or he just cant keep up??


There are times that he doesn't last as long, but I think that has a lot to do with the frequency of sex, how long foreplay was, how hot foreplay was, or if I tell him I just want a quickie. There are times we concentrate more on my orgasm, and times we concentrate more on his orgasm -- just depends on our moods. Having been together for so long, we are pretty good at reading each other as far as how aroused or how close to orgasm the other partner is. You can capitalize on that, or let it go so that the act continues on. We both enjoy building the intensity by getting close to orgasm and then backing off a bit.


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Fri, 05-11-2007 - 9:53am
A man should have the self control to orgasm when he wants to, not before or after.