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can't cum??
| Mon, 08-23-2004 - 11:41am |
Twice this last week when my bf and I were having sex he just couldn't cum. Normally he has no problems. I don't understand why. This morning he said he might have been able to if we had more time but he had to go to work. Is he just to physically tired (he has been working about 80hrs a week) or could something else be wrong. Any ideas, thanks.

Don't asweat it. It happens sometimes, ESPECIALLY if we're tired or stressed. The worst thing you can do is obsess on it and turn it into performance anxiety.
Besides, sex is still pretty great even without an orgasm - certainly many women know that, so unless he's complaining, I'd assume he's
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By the time we woke up after about 11 hours of much-needed sleep, it was extremely hot, and my bedroom doesn't have A/C, and late in the AM the sun was streaming through the window and it was just _damn_ balmy. Anyhow, we were going at it in the bright sunshine and just having a blast ... she asked if I would come in her mouth b/c she correctly remembered that I like it ... anyhow: I mistakenly thought I was about to come so I pulled out and put it in her mouth ... nothing. I masturbated for an eternity in front of her face ... thank heavens for an ample supply of saliva from her as needed ... it would have just been intolerable to say, "I've had enough, I just can't come," and she's being a trooper and trying to keep a really sexy face and just be totally there for me and so on.
Finally after an eternity it did happen. Fine; super; nothing better. Then I noticed that I'd been _pouring_ sweat all over the place like a maniac (I know, you will say ewwwwwwwwwww) but at least then we climbed into the shower and laughed it off. Anyhow, all this is a long-winded way of saying, it happens. I assure you, no need to make an issue of it.