cant fantasize?

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Registered: 02-11-2005
cant fantasize?
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Fri, 02-01-2008 - 4:35pm
For some reason i dont have fantasies... I want to, but i dont.
Brittany

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sat, 02-02-2008 - 1:40pm

I don't have elaborate fantasies. As a matter of fact, the one that I had for years and years was a very brief "blip". I would feel aroused, start thinking of sex, have a man come up from behind me. He would bend to kiss by neck and take me from behind. End of story.

Often now, my fantasies center around things I would like done to me, or about things DH and I have done that were particularly hot. Even at that, they tend to be short little blips at the right moment ;-)

If you can just relax and try to clear your mind, you'll be able to enjoy the sensations that you feel and some fantasies might be born from that -- things that pop into your mind without you having to think of them.

Another thing you could try doing is reading some erotica. Sort of planting little seeds in your mind, which can in turn help you to have fantasies as you recall them.