cant have multply orgasm

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-16-2007
cant have multply orgasm
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Thu, 08-16-2007 - 2:37pm
Hi everyone, new in the board
Need some advise. I am dating to my bf for 4yr. Iam 24yr old he 32.
Sex is grate, i heared that woman can have multply orgasm during one session,
which i never had, hardly one and not with intercource, it must be either oral
by him, or fingering clitorial. after that i need at list hourse to be able for
an other orgasm. please advise if there is any for multply orgasm.
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Registered: 07-10-1999
Thu, 08-16-2007 - 6:57pm

Many women can't orgasm from intercourse alone. If it's difficult for you to have orgasms through intercourse, then I wouldn't try for multiple orgasms from that.

If you can orgasm from fingering or through oral though, then you should be able to have multiple orgasms from that. Part of the problem may be that you are going into it expecting nothing to happen so then your body responds to your expectations. Try having your partner do the things that turn you on most thirty minutes to an hour after you have orgasmed. Before he does, picture it in your head that it will. Then when he is pleasing you, focus on how it feels rather than worrying about whether or not you will have orgasm. It may not happen right away, but it will eventually. Also, make sure you do this on days when you are relaxed. If you are stressed out and nervous, it will make things more difficult. You may also want to see if your guy can try different techniques on you to see if there are any that help you achieve orgasm more easily. Good luck.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 08-16-2007 - 8:24pm

Welcome to the board nadialvmshn.

Most women need extra stimulation during intercourse to achieve an orgasm. Try having either of you stimulate your clitoris during intercourse and see if that makes a difference. Also, positions like woman on top are great for stimulating your clitoris during intercourse.

Usually, when having a strong clitoral orgasm, you will need time calm down before you can handle repeated stimulation in that area. However, if you have an orgasm through oral, fingering or whatever method and then begin intercourse, if he's able to last for several minutes, then you should be able to try stimulation of your clitoris again. You will be more aroused than you were for the first orgasm, and often, that leads to a quicker orgasm for the second go round.

Here are a couple of articles that give more insight into multipe orgasms:

The Multiple Orgasm: can All Women Have Multiple O’s?
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexorgasm/0,,mtnw,00.html

Multiple Orgasms Explained
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexorgasm/0,,drpatti_2jp6,00.html

Have fun experimenting, and let us know if it works out for you.



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