Can't keep it in

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Registered: 02-03-2005
Can't keep it in
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Mon, 10-08-2007 - 2:26pm

The other night my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time.

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Registered: 04-20-2007
Mon, 10-08-2007 - 2:37pm
Have any of you're other past bf slipped out so much? Maybe it is his size one of my ex SO told me that her past bf use to slip out all the time and she was nervous about sex. Because of that well once we finally did have sex there was no problem with me slipping out at all. We all used alot of lube still no slipping out. Have you tried WOT?
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Registered: 12-12-2006
Mon, 10-08-2007 - 2:44pm

More than likely it's his fault........he's not sure how to get into a rhythm......if he pulls too far out, naturally it's going to COME out.

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Registered: 08-09-2007
Mon, 10-08-2007 - 5:04pm
I can definitely relate to this one. I agree with Sakura, it will take sometime in getting use to each other. He's probably nervous and very excited for obvious reasons. So you may also tend to tighten up more. Also, if he's not fully hard that "slip outs" would happen too. But anyways, you can try introducing doggie or sexual needs or desires. Just make sure you do it out of the bedroom. My ex FWB use to have the same problem. But after time he got better and learned to just relax and just have fun. Your SO may can try just holding on to the base of his penis while thrusting for while to get a constant rhythm going. Or you can reach down and help him with that. ;)

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Registered: 12-20-2004
Mon, 10-08-2007 - 5:33pm

It IS him, not you. If he moves 7" back but he is only 6" long, he will come out. MAKE him practice more, and it will be ok...lol

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 10-09-2007 - 6:26am

Since you're mentioning that he's stressed out, it's possible that he's loosing at least part of his erection. If his concentration is on whether or not he'll slip out, whether he'll satisfy you, whether his penis is large enough, or other thoughts along these lines, then he might be setting himself up for failure.

Guys can have insecurities just as women do. If he's having trouble, keep assuring him that everything is fine. There are many other things the two of you can do to sexually satisfy each other, and once his confidence is high, chances are, he'll have better luck during intercourse.













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