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| Sat, 01-01-2005 - 2:27pm |
I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now, and recently we took things to a new level in the relationship and started having sex. We are both 24 years old and truly like each other very much. What's the deal then? Well...when we start having sex, it's great, but as things progess, he loses his erection. It really didn't bother me at first b/c I just figured he was nervous. Well...that's what he told me anyway. He said that he doesn't want to displease me, etc, and that he's really nervous b/c of that. We've had sex more than enough now, and have been around each other enough that the nervous factor seems to be a cover up for some type of underlying problem. I'm very supportive though, and I tell him that it doesn't bother me, that it probably is just nerves and so forth. However, is this normal, especially considering that he's 24? Could I be doing something wrong? I've even asked if there was anything I could do, or if I was doing something that he didn't like, but then I felt bad b/c I felt like maybe I was putting extra pressure on him. So, what can do and why is this happening? Is it normal? Any input would be greatly appreciated!
Thanks,
Kait

It's very possible it happened at first because of it being a new relationship and being nervous.