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Can't orgasm
| Sun, 05-06-2007 - 11:39am |
Heya,
I have a really frustrating problem... Over the past couple of weeks, I've stopped being able to have an orgasm... If I masturbate everything feels normal but then my clit just goes kind of numb at the crucial moment and no matter how hard I try I can't quite get there... I've never had this problem before... Does anybody have any ideas?
Thanks,
Clare.

Welcome to the board Clare.
Sometimes this can happen when you are concentrating too hard on the goal (the orgasm) instead of just enjoying the pleasure. Also if you masturbate often, especially with a vibrator, then you can become desensitized to it.
If masturbating without a vibrator, try to relax and enjoy what you are feeling without thinking about an orgasm. If using a vibrator, try taking a break from it for a week or so and see if that makes a difference.
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