Cant perform Sex due to Poor Erection

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Registered: 02-17-2007
Cant perform Sex due to Poor Erection
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Sat, 02-17-2007 - 6:55pm

Dear Friends,

This is my first post and I just found this wonderful web resource related to sexual discussions.

I am married since last 2 years and a father of 1 year old.

My problem is that ever since the birth of my baby I am not able to perform sex. The reason being I can't maintain my erection and hence unable to enter my wife. As soon as I get excited the ejaculation takes place. Many a times, I have tried to maintain the erection but still cant enter my wife.

This shortcoming is gradually having adverse effect on our married life. Though my wife is very supportibve and has never compained. But I want to get back to normal and enjoy the marrie dlife.

Could someone suggest what shud be done ?

Thanks a lot !

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sat, 02-17-2007 - 7:55pm

Did this start happening after the birth of your baby or did you have problems with premature ejaculation before the baby was born


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Registered: 02-17-2007
Sun, 02-18-2007 - 12:30am

Thanks Tish for your quick attention.

Well I did had initial first time bottlenecks while entering my wife. But lube helped in that scenario.

My wife got pregnant soon after our marriage and we didnt indulge in sex at all during the pregnancy period. So its almost more than 20 months that we have engaged in practical sex. Though we have tried to vent our feelings through foreplay etc but no success with sex.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sun, 02-18-2007 - 10:06am

Where there medical reasons or did she have a high risk pregnancy and that is why you didn't have intercourse throughout her pregnancy?


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Registered: 02-17-2007
Wed, 02-21-2007 - 7:34am

Thanks a tonne Tish for your suggestions and advise.

I will certainly follow the suggestions and hopefully life would be swinging once again.

Best regards