can't stay hard.........

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Registered: 09-21-2004
can't stay hard.........
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Wed, 10-06-2004 - 2:29pm
1. IT IS HARD FOR ME TO MAINATIN A FULL ERECTION AND EJACULATE IN ANY POSITION......WHEN THIS HAPPENS THEN THERE IS NO NEED TO READ 2-9 BELOW. THE NIGHT IS A DISASTER. THIS HAPPENS ALOT NOW....

2. WHEN I AM ABLE TO EJACULATE IT IS ONLY IN THE MISSIONARY POSITION WHILE SHE SQUEEZES MY NIPPLES (IT ALSO HELPS MY ERECTION TO REMAIN)

3. THIS LIMITS THE VARIETY OF POSITIONS THAT MY G/F WOULD LIKE TO HAVE ME CUM IN.....HENCE BOREDUM CAN SET IN FOR HER POTENTIALLY .....(DOGGY, HER ON TOP, ETC WOULD BE GREAT!)

4. I CAN MASTURBATE W/A DECENT ERECTION BUT IT IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR PENETRATION.

5. I AM 39 Y/O AND ALWAYS USED TO A VERY HARD AND DURABLE ERECTION

6. IT IS VERY HARD FOR ME TO LET HER GIVE ME A BJ/HANDJOB B/C I CANNOT CUM LIKE THAT EITHER....TOO MUCH ANXIETY (WHICH FEELS GREAT) BUT I STILL WON'T EJACULATE

7. SHE CAN CUM VERY EASILY FROM ORAL WHICH I GIVE HER LOTS OF AND PENETRATION OFTEN ENOUGH

8. SHE IS SATISFIED BUT WOULD BE HAPPIER I FEEL, IF COULD EXPAND MY MENU...

9. LAS TLY, I DO WORRY A LITTLE WHEN WE R TOGETHER B/C I WANT TO PLEASE HER IN EVERY WAY AND HANDLE MY BUSINESS. I DON'T WORRY ABOUT HER LEAVING ME PER SE BUT......I STILL NEED TO HANDLE MY BUSINESS!!

PLEASE ADVISE ME.....I AM MISERABLE & CUMLESS IN NJ

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 10-06-2004 - 2:51pm

Hi Fadu and welcome to the board.


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Registered: 03-25-2003
Wed, 10-06-2004 - 4:01pm
I agree your best bet is to go to a urologist. This is obvoiusly affecting you both and is making you unhappy, a urologist will likely be able to help.
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Registered: 11-15-2003
Wed, 10-06-2004 - 5:28pm
I have to agree with the other two posters. I would see a urologist if you are suddenly having erection problems. Sometimes it's meds, or depression, or something physiological.

Good luck.

Scott.