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| Tue, 09-26-2006 - 12:24pm |
Ok I need some advice... I have been having a casual sexual relationship with a friend of mine and things started out very passionate. But now things are changing. The sex is still very much amazing, but he won't kiss me anymore. He says that he doesn't kiss "hook-up buddies". But we used to kiss. Does this mean that he is losing interest? Neither one of us are in the position for a relationship so this has been working out great for both of us. I don't want to stop sleeping with him. I would like to have a guys opinion on why he doesn't want to kiss me anymore. And I would like to get advice from other women on the situation.

Gee. What ever happened to TALKING to the person you're banging? Has that gone out of style these days? My Goodness, if you're sleeping with someone and sharing everything physically with them, why waste time wondering and guessing what they're thinking? Why not just ASK?
To the OP: I'm fairly certain he knows you like him since you're sleeping together.
What's the worst that can happen by asking him what he's thinking? If this is just a hookup for him, then he'll probably be bluntly honest about that, but at least you'll know. IF it's not, then maybe he'll begin to show more concern for your pleasure.
If nothing else, it will get a REAL conversation started. But one thing's for certain, wondering, analyzing or assuming you know what another person thinks or feels will get you nowhere fast.
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