Change in position?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-22-2004
Change in position?
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Fri, 11-19-2004 - 12:19pm
I'm new to this board and have a question, I have a "friend" who like to have sex in the SAME position each time we have sex and it's really not all that good anymore, but he doesn't try anything else well once with me on top, but not for long. I been starting to ignore him lately too because it's just not fun. I was just wondering why does he stay in the same position?? Any clues or thoughts????
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 11-19-2004 - 12:24pm
Why are you ignoring him instead of talking to him about it?

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Registered: 09-22-2004
Fri, 11-19-2004 - 12:30pm
He's not to comfortable about the issue we're friends and all, but how can we not talk about this? It's not that hard, it's just him opening up (i guess). I feel we shouldn't have had sex in the beginning sometimes he can be very aragant about him and his performance. I don't know I'll try to talk with him again.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 11-19-2004 - 12:50pm

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Fri, 11-19-2004 - 2:28pm

Maybe he doesn't know any other way! Have you suggested changes? If it's his way, or no way.....why are you bothering? You're certainly not happy with what's going on.

People who are "arrogant" about themselves are usually insecure people who are trying to cover that insecurity.

Sex without feelings does get boring. If it's not doing anything for you, and you can't talk to him about it, then why do you stay?