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cheating?
| Fri, 05-21-2004 - 6:49pm |
I'm back. i read your posts and left my bfriend. i thought he was my bfriend because he told me that he loved me and only me. i found out that he was also going out with another girl that we know. he was also having sex with her. should i tell the other girl? also how safe am i? we used condoms only to have sex and not for oral. i feel so dirty thinking that he might have did her and then me without showering.

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I think it's pretty darn common. Casual sex is, I guess, sex without necessarily loving the person. (I am not sure why you'd have sex with someone if you didn't at least _like them a fair bit!) It can be tons of fun approached in just the right way. Of course, very empty if not. I think you just have to be reasonably smart about using condoms and such.
But I will admit there is a major loophole: I've never really heard of anyone using condoms for oral sex. It is probably absurd but certainly I've many times been in situations where though I had a condom on for vaginal penetration, we then took it off, and I came in her mouth and she swallowed the whole thing. It just seems to be the norm, but it concededly makes no sense.
It means in an exclusive relationship. The OP said he cheated. Why would she say that if they were just having casual sex? You had lotsof casual sex in college, good for you. But we are not talking about you. Not everyone choose to go down that road, and you can't make assumptions based on what your lifestyle is. I gave my advice based on the information given, and you should do the same.
Leticia
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I am sorry, but WHAT ON EARTH does flossing teeth have to do with it. This sounds like a rather amusing old wives tale to me...but maybe I'm wrong...
Angel
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