cheating?

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Registered: 05-09-2004
cheating?
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Fri, 05-21-2004 - 6:49pm
I'm back. i read your posts and left my bfriend. i thought he was my bfriend because he told me that he loved me and only me. i found out that he was also going out with another girl that we know. he was also having sex with her. should i tell the other girl? also how safe am i? we used condoms only to have sex and not for oral. i feel so dirty thinking that he might have did her and then me without showering.

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Registered: 04-08-2004
In reply to: hell_to_raise
Wed, 05-26-2004 - 1:37pm
Thats why you get the flavored ones. LOL Chocolate, strawberry, banana, kiwi, grape, all sorts of flavors/colors. My SO likes the chocolate ones, but the was a fruit medly one that she liked more. Have not found it in a while though. She will use them on any man she goes down on other than me. We have been together and monogomous for 4 years, and just recently experimented with threesome. We both loved it, although she did the same thing. Condom for entering her, and removed it for oral. That made me very upset, and I told her that later. She agreed to never do that again without one. So, I guess we can only wait and see. LOL
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Registered: 10-09-2003
In reply to: hell_to_raise
Wed, 05-26-2004 - 1:44pm
Well...David, it's not only their responsibility, YOU should take responsibility for your own well being. Just because a woman insists that you remove a condom, doesn't mean that you should. Here's a list of the most common STDs. If you scroll down, each one is clearly and succintly spelled out. In every case, ORAL sex was a key transmitter, both on the receiving and giving end. Many of these have no symptoms and you can be spreading them yourself if you engage in frequent unprotected casual sex.

http://www.bestd.org/stdsymptomlist.htm

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