Cheating -- can we all be honest?
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| Thu, 05-19-2005 - 9:00am |
OK, I love my husband very much and would never want to leave him or hurt him. However, I am currently involved in a romantic relationship with a man from work (I'm a 32 y/o school teacher with two kids.) My husband has ABSOLUTELY NO IDEA -- I am very, very, VERY careful.
We have had sex on my desk as early as last week -- yes at school. I know it's a little wild, but I anyways . . . and we also have sex in his car. Please everyone resist the urge or trying to give me advice as to how to fix my relationship problems with my husband -- I already know what they are.
what I don't know is, how many other women out there cheat, even if it was just a one-time fling. I feel guilty but not enough to stop, and I know I can't be the only woman in America who feels this way.
because I DO feel guilty, i'm trying to get a feel for how many other women explore as I have. I don't need anybody to fix my problems -- just to talk about their experiences with this. as for the men -- listen, too bad. women cheat, OK, just like you do. deal with it or make us happy and make us feel the way we should feel for keeping your home and giving you the gift of children.

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Jake,
You have a pretty low view of men. Are you actually a jilted woman pretending to be a man?
A universal truth is that as soon as someone claims that "all" people are a certain way, you can be sure that they're wrong.
Peace.
Scott.
I agree with you, Scott, on Jake's view of men and cheating.
As for Emilie being sad, I think she made her bed so she ought to lie in it. I don't feel pity for her. She cheated and refuses to be honest with her husband. She isn't in love with him and refuses to see the error of her ways. She says she doesn't "owe" him anything because of all the things she's done for him. Last time I checked, marriage wasn't a scoreboard.
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