Clocks Out B4 He Even Clocks In!!!

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Registered: 03-18-2006
Clocks Out B4 He Even Clocks In!!!
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Fri, 06-15-2007 - 7:50pm

I dont want to make this long so i'll just get right to the point. For the last 2 times me & my man we're having sex within 2 minutes he already reached his peak before i even got warmed up! We already do foreplay, which is great but when its time to get down to business he clocks before he can even fully clock in. I dont know what the problem is & he doesnt seem to know either, which is the reason why i am here for some answers or atleast help. Is there any way to make the sex last long or atleast for him before he comes? What could be making him come so early?

TIA!!!!

Nicole

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Registered: 02-17-2007
Fri, 06-15-2007 - 9:18pm

Have you two ever had problems before, or is he a fairly new sex partner? If he is a new partner, it is fairly common for a man to become so excited that he finishes rather quickly. Even if that isn't the case, there are two things I can think of to make it last a bit longer: He can masturbate before having intercourse with you and you could use a condom to desensitize him a bit.

If that doesn't seem to help, you can at least have him perform oral on you or use toys to satisfy you before you engage in intercourse.

 

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 06-15-2007 - 11:24pm

Suki gave you some great suggestions. Here are some articles that you might find helpful as well:

"My guy suffers from premature ejaculation" (Please, Squeeze, At Ease)
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/experts/sexexpert/qas/0,,696792_705900,00.html
Written by Ian Kerner who has overcome this himself.

Topical Spray May Treat Premature Ejaculation
http://health.ivillage.com/familycare/familycarenews/0,,wbnews_b6kgfrnk,00.html

Sex: Coping with Husband's Premature Ejaculation
http://health.ivillage.com/sexualhealth/sxcommunicate/0,,6gtv,00.html

Let us know how things go.



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Registered: 08-12-2002
Sat, 06-16-2007 - 4:25am
If he's under a lot of stress right now, that could also be causing his issue. My ex and I used to only ever have good sex at Xmas time - between xmas and new year was the only time all year where he wasn't stressed, and he was able to last longer. Yeah, it sucked lol.