Coming way too quickly
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Coming way too quickly
| Sun, 07-25-2004 - 6:39pm |
Seems like after many years of having sex I now just come so so quickly when penetration begins, it's an odd scenario. I've never been at all multiorgasmic so I'm basically just "done," and I'm extremely sensitive afterward and often don't really like to be penetrated any more, when in fairness the guy's just getting started. What is wrong with me? Not that I don't enjoy sex, and my orgasm is indeed earth-shattering, but I don't ask for any foreplay whatsoever because then I just get too turned on and it makes this even briefer. I'm more or less a one-shot wonder -- have never been multiorgasmic. This just seems like a wierd sexual response pattern, and it's slowly gotten more and more like this over the years (I'm 38). I'm hardly suffering, but I think some of my b/fs have just been like, "huh?"

I would say that since this DOES affect the experience of your partner, and yourself, then you should (just as I would encourage a male poster to do, btw) work on changing your response, if possible.