Concerned about massage I received..

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Registered: 06-27-2005
Concerned about massage I received..
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Mon, 06-27-2005 - 2:07pm

I don`t know if this is the right board since I don`t know my way around here too well.

have been working out all my life and recently my back has been bothering me. I read about deep tissue massage and thought this might be good. Since I really never had a "real" massage I did not know what to expect. I went to this healing arts place and met a very nice woman who was to do my massage.
It felt like heavan and she kneaded and worked all the knots out of my back for over 45 minutes, she then told me to roll over and she did my thighs, since I only had a towel on I was a little uncomfortable but it felt good. I had a warm washcloth over my eyes and she stated she would finish me the last 5 minutes with a electric massager. As she worked her way up my legs I felt kind of odd but did not say anything, then she slowly took the massager to my inner thighs and ended up massaging my private parts. I have never had a massage before and did not know what to do, it only took about 20 seconds before I had a strong orgasm. I kind of looked and and she smiled and said that ill be all for today.
As I walked out to the desk to pay I felt a little humiliated wondering if it was just me that this has happened to.
Now I want another massge but am a little concerned about not being able to control my body again.
Is this a normal procedure during a massage?

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Registered: 09-25-2004
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 2:25pm

I go for massages as often as possible to work my shoulders loose, so I've never had one below the belt. I'd assume that what happened was normal. I wouldn't worry too much. As long as your back was feeling better and you drank the water she said to drink, you'll be fine. I'd go back again, just for the relief from pain..

Speaking of which, I oughta schedule one for me before the baby comes! Thanks!

-Jennie

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Registered: 04-02-2004
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 2:43pm

Guys usually get jerked off for their "happy endings". Never heard of a vibrator for a girl at the end of a massage.

You go girl!

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 2:46pm

I'm a strength trainer and I


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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 2:57pm
Not with a reputable massage therapist they don't.

~Tish

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Registered: 06-27-2005
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 3:20pm
Yes it was a reputable place.
I don`t know if she even knew that I had a orgasm. The thing is I have never used and kind of massager or vibration type or massager, so I just kind of jerked and came really fast. I don`t know if she knew what was going on or not.
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Registered: 05-27-2005
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 4:19pm
did she actually massage your private parts.. like totally touching your vagina w/ the vibrator???
That's unprofessional...
The full body massage does consist of inner thighs, buttocks, legs, etc.... NOT VAGINA!
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Registered: 05-27-2004
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 4:24pm

What makes you think it was "reputable"? I've never had a massage, but I have friends who have them regularly, and I also know a LICENCED Massage Therapist, and they do NOT do anything sexual.

This isn't right....and you might want to call the city health department, and ask THEM about it. You may have gotten yourself into a massage/sex parlor without knowing it. Somone mentioned that guys get that with a massage, not from a licenced massage therapist they don't....only at a place where they will do ANYTHING sexual for a price, in other words, prostitutes working under the cover of being a masseuse.

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Registered: 06-06-2005
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 4:25pm
I find it unthinkably difficult to believe she did not know EXACTLY waht she was doing to and for you.
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Registered: 06-27-2005
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 4:28pm
Kind of, she called it "The magic wand" Even before she was getting too close to my vagina area I could feel myself nearing a orgasm. Then it only took a matter of seconds when it came in contact with my private area. So I don`t know if this was by accident or a intentional. Given her reaction she seemed to know what had happened.
Since I have never had a massage I did not know what to do or how to handle the situation. Should I be offended? It felt quite incredible, but also a bit humliating.
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Registered: 05-27-2005
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 4:44pm
kristy..1,
We are talking about two different things her. First, I have had massages all over the USA and never had anyone touch my private area. Second, you enjoyed the experience, got a good massage and would like to go back. As long as you know what you are in for you make the decision. But like I and others have said that usually doesn't happen.

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