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| Wed, 06-25-2008 - 11:39am |
I have been divorced for a long time and single. I have a new relationship and condoms are new to me. I am fine with using them but... I have a problem. I usually perform three to five times with out stop before I go soft. Do I need to stop each time I ejaculate and put on a new condom? I have been doing it this way but it messes up my performance! What to do?

Welcome to the board, Rusty, and congratulations on your new relationship!
I've never had a partner who used condoms with any regularity, so I'm not sure that I would be the best person to give you advice on this, but it would seem to me they are for one time use. I doubt they are built to be durable enough for repeated performances, and would worry that they might break and leak.
Hopefully someone with better experience will be by with advice.
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Unfortunately, condoms are one-time-use only. Each time you ejaculate, you need to put on a fresh one if you plan to keep going. If you use them more than once, you run the risk of over-filling it and either having it break or leak. If this happens, you run the risk of causing a pregnancy or giving/contracting STD's. I would say that if you do not want kids with your new partner, you should continue to use a fresh condom each time.
If it is messing up your rhythm, try having a few already open so you don't have to stop long enough to open the package, just grab and go, so to speak. Or, you could try to incorporate putting the fresh condom on into part of the routine. Perhaps have her put the put the new one on in a seductive way, etc.
Hope that helps!
-Gina