condoms ruining an erection?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-03-2007
condoms ruining an erection?
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Sun, 06-03-2007 - 8:09pm
My partner and I tried to have sex for the first time yesterday. Everything was fine until he put the condom on. He says it was really uncomfortable and he instantly went soft. He says this problem only happens when he wears condoms. I really don't know where to go from here? I am on bc but I would like for him to wear a condom. What can we do? What can this be caused by?
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Registered: 03-08-2004
Sun, 06-03-2007 - 8:47pm

If condoms are a must for BC and/or STDs

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Sun, 06-03-2007 - 9:08pm
I have a similiar story...The guy who took my virginity was quite a bit older than I was and he had had sex alot. So me being as smart as I am...LOL made him wear a condom, and he kept telling me that he couldn't feel anything cause he never wore condoms and wasn't used to them so he couldn't get off, I told him too bad, needless to say, it took a while but he finally got off.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sun, 06-03-2007 - 10:01pm

Welcome to the board macapoo1.

I doubt seriously that the condom ruined his erection. His thought process about wearing a condom may have ruined his erection. It could have been anything from being shy about having to put it on to trying to convince you there was no need!

Stick to your guns, he'll get used to it.



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