Confused about Side Position
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Confused about Side Position
| Tue, 09-04-2007 - 2:49am |
We have been trying to achieve penetration through side position but it does not work out. We have tried him at back as well as him from front but we just end up being like octupuses. No penetration.
When doing sideways, how can she open her legs to allow him in?
Any help?

Sideways positions are not known for deep penetration, and for some body types, it doesn't work well at all.
In the spooning position (him coming up behind you), you might have to arch your back a little so that your butt is further out than normal. He might have to lie a little lower on the bed (head not necessarily even with yours) and come up from under as well as behind you. You can lift your top leg so that he can get started, and then rest it on top of your other leg once everything is working.
I've never had face to face sideways sex, so can't help you there.
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For me and dh, it hasn't been a position to comfortably get into. If he is already inside me, wether its me on top or traditional missionary, and we sort of roll to the side together, we can maintain the IC for a little while. Sometimes I find it nice to just see how long we can lay together with him inside me, just kissing and carressing, etc.
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Here is a rendition of a side position that allows for deep penetration and added benefits.
She’s in a comfortable position on her back, I’m on my side, she puts her closest leg over the top of me and her other legs between my legs while I roll to get into her. Penetration is deep and I have full hand access to her clit while penetrating. In addition, I can insert a full finger in her vagina along with my penis. I can have full stroke thrusts and stimulate her “G” spot at the same time and/or her clit . In addition, I can reach both of her breast to play with her nipples with my free hand.
Now when I cum, she has a ring side view of me cumming, which a lot of women like.
This sounds very similar to the position we're in, but we have never tried adding the finger with the penis. I'll definitely have to check that out.
In a couple of other threads, you mentioned about your nipples and about your DW masturbating with your cum after IC.
When DH and I are in this position, his nipples are very sensitive, especially just before he cums. Oddly enough, it's the nipple closest to the bedding, so it's a bit more difficult to get to, but it's very reactive.
Another event that I very much enjoy is after he cums, he'll rub his penis on my clit, using the cum as a sort of lube. Sends me to a whole new place, everytime.
"In a couple of other threads, you mentioned about your nipples and about your DW masturbating with your cum after IC."
"Another event that I very much enjoy is after he cums, he'll rub his penis on my clit, using the cum as a sort of lube. Sends me to a whole new place, everytime."
My DW may have come to appreciate using my cum to mastubate when I started ejaculating on her clit and she would then rub the cum on it using my penis. We haven't tried cum on her breast yet but I have come in her mouth. We'll need to try that sometime, I think she would like it. She loves for me to pull on her nipples after getting them covered with oil, cum would really add heat to the session.