a couple Q's on fingering
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a couple Q's on fingering
| Tue, 06-22-2004 - 7:41pm |
Hello,
My bf and I have been in a very close relationship for some time and we have been physical for months... everything has been going great... except for the time he broke my hymen... and just today, when he was fingering me he used two fingers for the first time and at first it hurt, but then I was quite enjoying it... Now a few hours later it kinda burns when i go to the bathroom, and is a bit sore if i dont sit right... also there was a very tiny bit of bleading after........ is this all normal? do you think its just like this because its the first time anything as wide as two fingers were inside me?

You were probably not lubricated enough
Go to the store, buy a tube, hand it to him and tell him to use it. Do NOT attempt to use things that you have around the house, like lotions, or vaseline, or cooking oil. You need the lubricant that's made for sexual use.
After reading some of your answers to my questions I'm very proud to report that I did ask him/ tell him to use lubricant, he was great and supportive.... he admitted that he was going to try it even without asking me, just in case... and he admitted that at first when i told him about the pain he was very worried, and was also releived that lubricant might help the problem.... And today i feel 100% normal!.... I love this board and I love your guy's advice, you have no idea how much it helps.... thanks for your support.