Cum inside

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Cum inside
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Mon, 03-19-2007 - 6:37pm
I was telling my bf how I was wet because I think his cum is still dripping out of me after he ejaculated in me a couple of times three days ago. He's worried that I'm pregnant because the cum is still dripping out of me (I think) But I am on birth control and take it correctly. I thought that this is normal for the cum to leak out after sex? Is three days after something I should be concerned about? I also thought that the cum could stay inside of you for upto a week? Fill me in for sure!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: stephanien719
Mon, 03-19-2007 - 9:48pm
It is normal for it to leak out of you, but I doubt very much if it would leak out for more than 1 day, not 3 days later. JMHO
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Registered: 07-05-2006
In reply to: stephanien719
Mon, 03-19-2007 - 10:07pm
Well like I said, I'm not sure if it his his cum leaking out of me, possibly I am just wet for some reason. I'm not really sure. I was just checking. It never even leaks out very much even after one day. When I think of leaking I think of it going down my legs or something, but nope that doesn't happen. So I think it's normal.
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Registered: 06-24-2006
In reply to: stephanien719
Mon, 03-19-2007 - 10:13pm
You can have some that slowly leaks out over a day or so, nothing wrong with that. Your on the pill, so the chances you are pregnant are slim, but with any birth control their is always a chance. So, if you want to make absolutly sure you dont become pregnant, then 2 things..stop having IC (I doubt you will want that..lol), or you could always add a condom for added protection. Buut I wouldnt worry about the leakage unless it continues or the color of it changes or the consistency changes, then it could signal an infection or something else, in which case a trip to the doc would be in order.

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Registered: 07-05-2006
In reply to: stephanien719
Mon, 03-19-2007 - 10:16pm
Okay, thank you!
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Registered: 12-12-2006
In reply to: stephanien719
Mon, 03-19-2007 - 11:43pm

Unless you're laying flat on your back, it's all going to drain out of you within a few hours. If you go to sleep immediately after, then in the morning, you might have a little draining out, but not for three days, and NEVER for a week.

Your b/f needs some education on what the "signs" of pregnancy are, and his ejaculate "staying" in you for three days has nothing to do with it. If you were to get pregnant, the some of the sperm go thru your cervix within an hour or two, and make their way to the fallopian tubes. The sperm in the semen only live for about 72 hours. In your case, if you're taking the pill correctly, then you're not ovulating, and there's no ovum to fertilize, so you have NO WORRIES. (If you WERE to get pregnant, there are no "signs" in a few days. The first sign you would have would be skipping a period. These days, you can take a pregnancy test and know for sure. In the old days, without pregnancy tests, there were NO signs for about 6 weeks....when you'd start feeling bloated, your breasts would get tender, and you might get morning sickness.)

If you feel like you have a heavyier than usual discharge (all women have a slight discharge, which the natural cleansing action of the vagina) and if there's any itching or burning, greenish coloring or a bad odor, that's some kind of infection, and you'd have to see the doctor to know what it was, and what you need to take care of it.

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Registered: 07-05-2006
In reply to: stephanien719
Tue, 03-20-2007 - 8:22am
Okay. Thank you for the reassurance. It's good to know! =)
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Registered: 02-20-2007
In reply to: stephanien719
Tue, 03-20-2007 - 5:48pm
is the "719" in your name your area code? Just curious. ;-)
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Registered: 07-05-2006
In reply to: stephanien719
Tue, 03-20-2007 - 5:52pm
Oh, nope! 7 is the month of my bday and 19 is the day of my bday
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Registered: 12-28-2006
In reply to: stephanien719
Thu, 03-22-2007 - 11:18am

A man's ejaculate is only about 2 tablespoons, much of it leaks out soon after intercourse. After that what doesn't leak out is absorbed.

You should learn about fertility. Usually between the 10-17 day after your period starts you go through your fertile cycle which lasts about 3-4 days. During this time your discharge will change. It becomes slipperier to the touch, more viscous. It is conducive to the survival of sperm and also allows them to travel upstream in search of the egg. During this time you will feel wetter and it may feel similar to the wetness after intercourse.

I do not know how BC affects the discharge. Some BC pills block the fertilized egg from implanting and thus the developing egg is discharged. I don't know if this effects the discharge.

Sperm do not live long outside of your fertile period. During you fertile period, the period of slippery discharge, the sperm can live for 3-4 days. The key is the slippery discharge.

Do some research on Natural Family Planning or NFP. NFP will teach you about the different phases of your period and what is happening when. It is also very good for those wanting to become pregnant too as it identifies your fertile time and well as infertile time.

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Registered: 12-19-2006
In reply to: stephanien719
Thu, 03-22-2007 - 12:38pm
If you clean yourself up after, including going pee and wiping well, you shouldn't notice much else leaking out later. I think that you are probably experiencing vaginal discharge. Often, during ovulation this occurs, which is usually in the middle of your cycle. If there is a bad odor or itch, you may have a yeast infection or something -- so I would check with the doctor if it continues.


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