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cummin on my face
| Mon, 05-17-2004 - 6:43pm |
My first time post. My boyfriend keeps cummin on my face when he knows I don't like it.It happened three times and I asked him nicely to stop it.Its not the worst thing, but this last time he actually held my head and it pissed me off.Why do guys like to do this?

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You told him you don't like it and you feel degraded.
I love giving facials, have done it hundreds of times, but the odds of my doing it with less than 100% enthusiasm on my partner's part would be precisely zero.
Melanie
My wife and I enjoy facials -- but they are part of the mutually enjoyed sex act. I would never do it if she didn't want it.
This guy is using you for sex. And what he is doing is sexual assault.
I don't even know what redeeming qualities this guy may have, but if I were you I would get rid of him right now. At the least I would say "if you ever did that again, you're gone" -- and then I'd stick to my word.
Very good answer. I agree totally. Everything can be done, but without 100% enthusiasm from my SO, it's a no go. I am not going to push her into a situation that she doesn't want in the first place. If she doesn't mind, then I don't mind if we don't do it. If she wants to try it, then lets give it a shot. I have done a few facials, and the women who took them were happy to do it, but once done, that was enough for them. It was kind of cool, but I thought it was degrading, and so I didn't do it anymore, or rather very often. I personally think they are degrading unless the situation is right, the two people are right with it, and they want to do it. Otherwise, open up, it's coming!! LOL Anyway, if the woman doesn't want to get semen in her mouth, might as well keep your mouth away from my penis. No use there. LOL I would prefer to just please her, than have her end up with something she doesn't want. Abuse?? I am not in total agreement on that one. I have done things even after my SO has stated her dislike for them, but then again, most of that is not to her, it is other things. So, my advice as usual is TELL YOUR BF to STOP. PERIOD. If he insistes, remind him that rape carries a heavy sentence in this country, and that teeth can sever appendages just like a knife. They are a lot harder to put back on after being bitten off then cut off. LOL Or, Just keep your mouth away from his penis for a long, long time.
Absolutely. Life is too short. I can't imagine there's any psychic pleasure in doing this if she's not totally, utterly into it. So then why do it? If it's just for the physical pleasure, the guy can just go masturbate. Then no one will get an eye put out! ;-)
Seriously, though: I just don't GET why anyone would want to subject anyone to anything they weren't totally into ... especially when you know full well they'll never do it again "with feeling." The original poster's predicament is the root of so much of that truly awful abuse that transpired in Iraq, it seems to me.
I just wanted to comment that men do, in fact, do things to or with their SO's even after they have stated "not this time" or "maybe next time", etc., but that isn't abuse - like jeep says. To me, that's having your way with manhandling your SO. At least that is how I think of it. I like manhandling and my hubby knows that, so when I say "not this time" or "maybe next time", he will still continue to do whatever it is knowing full well that I will like it. I actually get more turned on when he holds me down or spreads my legs out further or whatever. Now, sometimes I really don't! And I get upset afterwards. We have a word we use now. Haven't used it yet, but it was a good idea I got from this board. So, even jeep has gone ahead and done things knowing his SO didn't really like them.
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